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Ngaba ulonwabo lunokufumaneka ngexesha leholide...ingakumbi phakathi kwentlungu eqatha?
Uvuyo lokwenene lunokufumaneka ngokuqinisekileyo ngexesha lentlungu!
Kukho umahluko phakathi kolonwabo novuyo oluzaliswe lithemba.
Ulonwabo lunokuxhomekeka kwiimvakalelo, iingcinga, iimeko neenkolelo. Uvuyo oluzele lithemba lufumaneka ngokuqonda indlela uBawo wethu uThixo asithanda ngayo, eyondelela ukulunga kwakhe, nokungena eluxolweni lwakhe olugqibeleleyo, inkuthazo yothando, nokuphumla.
Kukuqonda ukuba uThixo unecebo ngentlungu yakho yentliziyo, kunye nobomi bakho, kwaye uyazi ukuba akasoze adlale ngentlungu.
Ekugqibeleni, kukuqonda ukuba ulonwabo lweeholide lufumaneka kuye kuphela!
Ngaphambi kosizi, bendicinga ukuba iiholide zizele luvuyo ngenxa yokucwangcisa nokuba neeholide "ezigqibeleleyo" kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Kwaba semva kwentlungu apho ndafumanisa ukuba ezona holide zolonwabo zinyulu zifumaneka kuThixo kuphela.
UThixo uyeyona ntsingiselo yokwenene nge, kunye nakwi, holide.
Usuku loMbulelo ayilosuku nje lokubulela ngenxa yabantu esibathandayo kunye neentsikelelo zethu zasemhlabeni...Usuku loMbulelo lusuku lombulelo omkhulu ngenxa yendlela esinombulelo ngayo ngokuba noThixo osithandayo nosithanda ngokukodwa! Sinombulelo ngako konke akwenzayo ezintliziyweni zethu nasebomini bethu, sinombulelo ngobuncwane banaphakade abenzayo emiphefumlweni yethu, kwaye sinombulelo kuba sinobona buhlobo buyinyani nobona buhle kunye Naye!
Ukuqonda ukuba uThixo usilungiselela indawo ngonaphakade, kwaye iZulu libambe abo sibathandayo kwaye ubutyebi bethu obunentsingiselo ngakumbi sisizathu esikhulu sokuba nombulelo.
IKrisimesi asiyiyo eyokuchitha nje ixesha kunye nabantu esibathandayo, sihombisa imithi kunye namakhaya ethu, sicula iingoma zeKrisimesi, sibhaka, okanye sibukela imiboniso bhanyabhanya yeKrisimesi kumabonakude...IKrisimesi ngokungangxengwanga lixesha elingomsindisi wethu owashiya ubuqaqawuli beZulu (khawufan'ucinge?) ukuze abe ngumntu asindise imiphefumlo yethu...ukuze abe nobudlelwane obubodwa, obusenyongweni nathi!
Ukushiya lonke uzuko kunye nonqulo eZulwini—ukugqibelela, uvuyo, kunye nokuphelela kunye nokunqulwa 24/7 ziingelosi—ukuze adale iholide ekhethekileyo ebizwa ngokuba yiKrisimesi, ukuze sikwazi ukuza kuye ngokukhululekileyo kwaye sibe nokufikelela ebudlelwaneni obusondeleyo kunye naye, indiqhekeza ingqondo lento! Indibangela ukuba ndifune ukujolisa kwelona bali lililo leKrisimesi, ibali leKrisimesi elihle elinikeza ithemba elingummangaliso! Kwaye indibangela ndifune ukuthanda kwaye ndikhuthaze abanye ngendlela andithanda kwaye andikhuthaze ngayo.
Njengoko ethe ngothando wasipha ngamnye wethu, ndiyazama ukukhumbula ukupha ngothando abanye ngexesha leeholide, ngokunjalo, ngokunika abo ndibathandayo abandingqongileyo izipho zothando, inkuthazo, iinkumbulo ezikhethekileyo, kunye nezenzo zenkonzo ukubabonisa ukuba banjani. ndinombulelo ngokuba nabo.
Cinga ngendlela onokunikela ngayo kusapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo bakho ngeli xesha leholide.
Kuya kunceda ukuthoba intliziyo yakho enzima, kwaye uzivumele ukuba usikelele intliziyo yomnye umntu kule nkqubo.
Xa ndicinga ngentsingiselo yokwenyani yeKrisimesi, indibongoza ukuba ndichithe ixesha leKrisimesi ndifuna intliziyo kaThixo, ndibhiyozele uvuyo olufumaneka Ngaye, kwaye nokuqonda ngakumbi ukuba ndingabelana nabani ngothando lwakhe kunye naye.
Isenokungayiphelisi ngokupheleleyo intlungu ekhoyo ngoku, kodwa inamandla okuzalisa onke amakholwa ngovuyo lokwenene njengoko siqonda idini elimangalisayo uThixo alenzele uluntu...ukuze abe nobuhlobo obunyanisekileyo, obunothando nobokwenene kunye nathi!
Ukuqonda uvuyo lokwenene luyafumaneka, kwanaphakathi kobunzima, sisipho uThixo kuphela anokusidala ezintliziyweni zethu.
Namhlanje, cela uThixo ukuba akunike isipho esisikelelekileyo sovuyo kwaye umcele ukuba enze oku kube yinyani kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha leholide.
Cingisisa ngokubuza uThixo ukuba ngubani na onokuthi umsikelele ngeli xesha leholide, ngokunjalo, ngothando kunye nenkuthazo yakho.
Umthandazo:
“Bawo oseZulwini, enkosi kakhulu ngayo yonke into osenzele yona nosapho lwam—ixesha elidlulileyo, elangoku, nelizayo—kwaye ndiyabulela ngako konke oya kuhlala usenzela kona nathi!
Nceda ugcwalise iintliziyo zethu ngovuyo lwaKho olungaphezulu kwendalo! Sincede siluve uvuyo lwakho luhluma ezintliziyweni zethu ngeli xesha leholide. Yenza ubukho bakho baziwe, kunye nothando lwakho, ithemba, inkuthazo kunye nentuthuzelo! Ndiyakudumisa kuba sinokufumana uvuyo lobuthixo nangona abanye besentlungwini enkulu kangaka. Nanini na xa siziva siphantsi okanye sidimazekile ngeli xesha leholide, gcwalisa iintliziyo zethu ngothando kunye nobukho bakho! Sizalise ngokutsha ngeTHEMBA!
Nceda umntu ngamnye kuthi abe sisixhobo senkuthazo, ithemba, uthando, uvuyo, noxolo kubo bonke obabeke ezindleleni zethu.
Siyakuthanda, Nkosi! NgeGama likaYesu, Amen.”
Olu nqulo © 2015 luka Kim Niles/Intlungu Iyaluma. Onke Amalungelo Agciniwe. Isetyenziswe ngemvume.
Uvuyo lokwenene lunokufumaneka ngokuqinisekileyo ngexesha lentlungu!
Kukho umahluko phakathi kolonwabo novuyo oluzaliswe lithemba.
Ulonwabo lunokuxhomekeka kwiimvakalelo, iingcinga, iimeko neenkolelo. Uvuyo oluzele lithemba lufumaneka ngokuqonda indlela uBawo wethu uThixo asithanda ngayo, eyondelela ukulunga kwakhe, nokungena eluxolweni lwakhe olugqibeleleyo, inkuthazo yothando, nokuphumla.
Kukuqonda ukuba uThixo unecebo ngentlungu yakho yentliziyo, kunye nobomi bakho, kwaye uyazi ukuba akasoze adlale ngentlungu.
Ekugqibeleni, kukuqonda ukuba ulonwabo lweeholide lufumaneka kuye kuphela!
Ngaphambi kosizi, bendicinga ukuba iiholide zizele luvuyo ngenxa yokucwangcisa nokuba neeholide "ezigqibeleleyo" kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Kwaba semva kwentlungu apho ndafumanisa ukuba ezona holide zolonwabo zinyulu zifumaneka kuThixo kuphela.
UThixo uyeyona ntsingiselo yokwenene nge, kunye nakwi, holide.
Usuku loMbulelo ayilosuku nje lokubulela ngenxa yabantu esibathandayo kunye neentsikelelo zethu zasemhlabeni...Usuku loMbulelo lusuku lombulelo omkhulu ngenxa yendlela esinombulelo ngayo ngokuba noThixo osithandayo nosithanda ngokukodwa! Sinombulelo ngako konke akwenzayo ezintliziyweni zethu nasebomini bethu, sinombulelo ngobuncwane banaphakade abenzayo emiphefumlweni yethu, kwaye sinombulelo kuba sinobona buhlobo buyinyani nobona buhle kunye Naye!
Ukuqonda ukuba uThixo usilungiselela indawo ngonaphakade, kwaye iZulu libambe abo sibathandayo kwaye ubutyebi bethu obunentsingiselo ngakumbi sisizathu esikhulu sokuba nombulelo.
IKrisimesi asiyiyo eyokuchitha nje ixesha kunye nabantu esibathandayo, sihombisa imithi kunye namakhaya ethu, sicula iingoma zeKrisimesi, sibhaka, okanye sibukela imiboniso bhanyabhanya yeKrisimesi kumabonakude...IKrisimesi ngokungangxengwanga lixesha elingomsindisi wethu owashiya ubuqaqawuli beZulu (khawufan'ucinge?) ukuze abe ngumntu asindise imiphefumlo yethu...ukuze abe nobudlelwane obubodwa, obusenyongweni nathi!
Ukushiya lonke uzuko kunye nonqulo eZulwini—ukugqibelela, uvuyo, kunye nokuphelela kunye nokunqulwa 24/7 ziingelosi—ukuze adale iholide ekhethekileyo ebizwa ngokuba yiKrisimesi, ukuze sikwazi ukuza kuye ngokukhululekileyo kwaye sibe nokufikelela ebudlelwaneni obusondeleyo kunye naye, indiqhekeza ingqondo lento! Indibangela ukuba ndifune ukujolisa kwelona bali lililo leKrisimesi, ibali leKrisimesi elihle elinikeza ithemba elingummangaliso! Kwaye indibangela ndifune ukuthanda kwaye ndikhuthaze abanye ngendlela andithanda kwaye andikhuthaze ngayo.
Njengoko ethe ngothando wasipha ngamnye wethu, ndiyazama ukukhumbula ukupha ngothando abanye ngexesha leeholide, ngokunjalo, ngokunika abo ndibathandayo abandingqongileyo izipho zothando, inkuthazo, iinkumbulo ezikhethekileyo, kunye nezenzo zenkonzo ukubabonisa ukuba banjani. ndinombulelo ngokuba nabo.
Cinga ngendlela onokunikela ngayo kusapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo bakho ngeli xesha leholide.
Kuya kunceda ukuthoba intliziyo yakho enzima, kwaye uzivumele ukuba usikelele intliziyo yomnye umntu kule nkqubo.
Xa ndicinga ngentsingiselo yokwenyani yeKrisimesi, indibongoza ukuba ndichithe ixesha leKrisimesi ndifuna intliziyo kaThixo, ndibhiyozele uvuyo olufumaneka Ngaye, kwaye nokuqonda ngakumbi ukuba ndingabelana nabani ngothando lwakhe kunye naye.
Isenokungayiphelisi ngokupheleleyo intlungu ekhoyo ngoku, kodwa inamandla okuzalisa onke amakholwa ngovuyo lokwenene njengoko siqonda idini elimangalisayo uThixo alenzele uluntu...ukuze abe nobuhlobo obunyanisekileyo, obunothando nobokwenene kunye nathi!
Ukuqonda uvuyo lokwenene luyafumaneka, kwanaphakathi kobunzima, sisipho uThixo kuphela anokusidala ezintliziyweni zethu.
Namhlanje, cela uThixo ukuba akunike isipho esisikelelekileyo sovuyo kwaye umcele ukuba enze oku kube yinyani kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha leholide.
Cingisisa ngokubuza uThixo ukuba ngubani na onokuthi umsikelele ngeli xesha leholide, ngokunjalo, ngothando kunye nenkuthazo yakho.
Umthandazo:
“Bawo oseZulwini, enkosi kakhulu ngayo yonke into osenzele yona nosapho lwam—ixesha elidlulileyo, elangoku, nelizayo—kwaye ndiyabulela ngako konke oya kuhlala usenzela kona nathi!
Nceda ugcwalise iintliziyo zethu ngovuyo lwaKho olungaphezulu kwendalo! Sincede siluve uvuyo lwakho luhluma ezintliziyweni zethu ngeli xesha leholide. Yenza ubukho bakho baziwe, kunye nothando lwakho, ithemba, inkuthazo kunye nentuthuzelo! Ndiyakudumisa kuba sinokufumana uvuyo lobuthixo nangona abanye besentlungwini enkulu kangaka. Nanini na xa siziva siphantsi okanye sidimazekile ngeli xesha leholide, gcwalisa iintliziyo zethu ngothando kunye nobukho bakho! Sizalise ngokutsha ngeTHEMBA!
Nceda umntu ngamnye kuthi abe sisixhobo senkuthazo, ithemba, uthando, uvuyo, noxolo kubo bonke obabeke ezindleleni zethu.
Siyakuthanda, Nkosi! NgeGama likaYesu, Amen.”
Olu nqulo © 2015 luka Kim Niles/Intlungu Iyaluma. Onke Amalungelo Agciniwe. Isetyenziswe ngemvume.
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