Intlungu Iyaluma: Ithemba ngeeHolideIsampulu

Grief Bites: Hope for the Holidays

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Ah, iiholide! Ixesha apho amagqabi asekwindla anemibala ngemibala asikhumbuza ukuba ixesha loMbulelo lisendleleni kwaye ukulindela iKrisimesi kulapha ekujikeleni kwekona. Ixesha apho wonke umntu ezaliswe ngumbulelo, uthando, imvisiswano yosapho kunye novuyo, akunjalo?

Ngelishwa, oku akunjalo kumntu wonke-ingakumbi abo baphulukene nomntu abamthandayo, abo baphulukana nobudlelwane obukhulu okanye abanengxaki yosapho, okanye abo banelahleko enkulu okanye intlungu.

Ekukhuleni kwam, ndandisoloko ndizithanda iiholide yaye ndikhangele phambili kuzo.
Xa udade wam oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala wasweleka ngoSuku loMbulelo, endaweni yokuba iiholide zibe lelona xesha limnandi lonyaka, iiholide zaba lixesha lonyaka eloyikekayo nelinzima kakhulu.

Ulifumana njani ithemba ngelixesha leeholide?

Unokubahlonela njani abantu obathandayo ngoku ababhiyozela iiholide zaseZulwini kunye noThixo?

Ngaba ulonwabo lunokwenzeka ngexesha leholide...ingakumbi phakathi kwentlungu eqatha?

Unokuzenza njani iiholide ezinentsingiselo ezizaliswe luxolo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzeka ntoni na ebomini?

Ndicela undijoyine kwezintsuku zimbalwa zizayo xa ndiphendula lemibuzo neminye.

“Bawo waseZulwini,
Ndithandazela bonke abo banxungupheleyo ngeeholide—ingakumbi ngeli xesha loMbulelo kunye neKrisimesi. Nceda uphilise kwaye uthuthuzele ngokunzulu iintliziyo zabo ezibuhlungu. Nceda ubahlambe ngofefe lwakho nangenceba yakho yonke imihla. Babambe ngeengalo zakho zothando kwaye ubathwale kuko konke okwenzeka kubo abasentlungwini. NgeGama likaYesu, amen!

Olu nqulo © 2015 nguKim Niles/Intlungu Iyaluma. Onke Amalungelo Agciniwe. Isetyenziswe ngemvume.
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Malunga nesi Sicwangciso

Grief Bites: Hope for the Holidays

Kwabaninzi, iiholide lixesha lovuyo olukhulu... kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa iiholide zilahlekelwa kukukhanya kwazo kwaye zibe ngumngeni ngenxa yentlungu enzulu okanye ilahleko? Esi sicwangciso sokufunda sikhethekileyo siya kunceda abo basentlungwini ukuba bafumane intuthuzelo nethemba ngeeholide, kwaye sinikeza nendlela yokudala ixesha leholide elinentsingiselo phezu kwayo nje intlungu enzulu.

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Sithanda ukubulela uKim Niles, umbhali we-Getting Your Breath Back After Life Knocks It Out of You, ngokubonelela ngesi sicwangciso. Ngolwazi oluthe vetshe, nceda undwendwele ku: www.griefbites.com