Choose Biblically

Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

Ephesians 5:25

Growing a powerful 2-as-1 marriage is a choice. What God created to last forever is not dependent on your mood from one day to the next. There is a choice to love or not to love because, believe it or not, love is not an emotion. It’s a decision.

People may claim to “fall out” of love, but that’s a cop-out. You choose to no longer love your spouse, or you choose to always love them.

With the reality of choice, divorce should not be an option. Actually divorcing because you claim to have fallen out of love is like selling your gun because you ran out of ammo!! Instead, reload and decide to focus your love where it belongs - on your spouse.

Yep, reload your love by paying attention to your spouse. Not the job, the next promotion, or the newly assigned cruiser—your beloved spouse deserves your focused attention.

It’s a choice you get to make, so make the right one. A 2:24 Unit is also a choice to place each other above everything and everyone else. Together, your marriage will become bulletproof, but you must choose wisely.

CALL TO ACTION:

This is a simple act, but possibly the most important choice you’ll both make. Tell each other that you will not divorce and mean it.