Risk & Courage

• There is risk in any relationship, but this is at the core of the Gospel. God pays a great price for us at the risk that we may refuse his offer.
• For men (since it is usually the men who initiate) there will always be a risk. Be courageous and follow the Lord's voice when you hear Him prompting you to pursue a romantic relationship. Remember, even if faced with rejection, your identity remains firmly rooted in Christ. So go ahead, ask her out! Grab a coffee, get to know her. Initiating a date doesn't equate to an engagement; it simply signifies your intention and interest.
• Ladies, don't hesitate to accept date invitations! In this world, sometimes a date within Christian circles feels like an impending engagement. Relax, enjoy the date, and see where it leads.

Scripture:

Genesis 24:5-8

Reflection:

Is your risk different from the risk anyone else takes in relationships?

Are you willing to take risks in pursuing a relationship?

What are you not willing to risk and why?

Application:

1. If you are involved with someone, discuss the risks for both of you in pursuing the relationship further, and what scares you.
2. If you are considering pursuing someone, list the risks you are unwilling to take and discuss it with someone you trust.
3. Consider ways to mitigate the risk, reduce it, or remove it entirely.
4. If it cannot be moved, consider ways to ensure you can confront the risk with honourable actions, communicating carefully with the other person involved.
5. Pray intentionally, and see what God says through the Word and wise council.

Prayer:

Father, please help me to see your plans for this relationship. You know the risks involved for me and for them, and I ask you to show us your grace and kindness so clearly during this time. If risks are to be taken, grant me peace. If you will remove/reduce them, let it be clearly by your hand, that I might praise your name all the more.