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Ukungqubuzana
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubudlelwano benu bujabule kangakanani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi nihlangana kalula kangakanani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ninezinsuku ezingaki ezingenakho ukucindezeleka nindawonye, into eyodwa iqinisekile:
Ukungqubuzana kuzofika.
Akunakugwenywa. Ngisho nobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu okwake kwaba khona, lapho ilungu ngalinye labashadikazi lilokhu lihhahhamezwa futhi liqeda imisho ngokugigitheka - ngisho nalabo abathandanayo bazohlangabezana nokungqubuzana. Ngelinye ilanga.
Yingakho udinga ukwazi ukuthi kubhekwana kanjani nakho lapho sekwenzeka.
Imibhalo yanamuhla iyasikhuthaza ukuthi sephuze ukukhuluma-isiyalo esiwusizo lapho ukungqubuzana kuvusa amakhanda awo amabi. Kuphinde kusikhumbuze ukuthi sephuze ukuthukuthela - into engashoko kalula kunokukwenza.
Ingabe uyashesha ukukhuluma? Ingabe ujwayele ukuthukuthela? Uyazi ukuthi kungani? Ingabe uke wema ukumba lokho kuthambekela futhi ukuthole? Ngoba uma ukwazi, kusho ukuthi usendleleni eya ekudambiseni ukungqubuzana esikhathini esizayo.
Nokuzibandakanya nokungqubuzana ngendlela enempilo nekhiqizayo – lokho kuyisakhiwo esikhulu sokwakha uthando oluhlala njalo.
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