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Ukuxoxisana
Manje sekuyisikhathi sokungena kumantongomane namabhawodi okwakha uthando oluhlala njalo: ukubonisana.
Lokhu kukhulu. Okubalulekile kakhulu. Lokhu ohlale uzwa ngakho, kuze kube mhlawumbe kuyakugulisa futhi uphendule, uthukuthele, "Yebo, ngiyazi! Ukukhulumisana kubalulekile emshadweni!"
Kodwa kunesizathu sokuthi uhlale uzwa ngesidingo sokuxhumana: ngoba kbaluleke kakhulu.
Into ngokuxhumana, nokho, ukuthi akukhona nje ukuthi kuzwakale – kumayelana nokuzwakala. Kumayelana nokulalela ngenkuthalo ngenkathi owakwakho ekhuluma ukuze uzwe ngempela ukuthi bathini - futhi naye aphendule ngendlela efanayo.
Kodwa ukuxoxisana akukona nje ukukhuluma, futhi. Ingxoxo ibalulekile, kodwa akuyona yodwa ingxenye yokuxhumana. Uxhumana ngobuso bakho, ngezwi lakho - ngisho nangezenzo zakho.
Uma ufuna ukwakha uthando oluhlala njalo, kumele ufunde ukuxhumana nowakwakho, ngezindlela eziningi zokuxhumana ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngenhlanhla, asikho isidingo sokuthi ufunde lokhu uwedwa – uNkulunkulu ukhona ukuze akusize. Thandaza, funda umbhalo, futhi ucele usizo Lwakhe ukuze likungenise endleleni eya ekukhulumisaneni okujabulisayo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu lokho.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Kulolu cwaningo, sizokuqondisa ohambweni lobudlelwano oluhlanganisa izindlela ezingu-12 ezibalulekile zokuba Nothando Oluhlala Njalo.
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