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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

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Ngempela, Thim? Ingabe bekufanele ukuveze lokhu kakade? Sithanda ukucabanga ukuthi izingane zethu zithatha kuphela ukuziphatha kwethu okuhle kakhulu. Ngokuziqhenya siyakhohlwa ama-negative ethu futhi sicabange ukuthi izingane zethu zijabulela okuhle kwethu. Yilokho ukuziqhenya kwethu okwenzayo, akunjalo? Kusigcina eqinisweni lokwehluleka kwethu ukuhlala simodela impilo esethemba ukuthi izingane zethu zizoyiphila ngelinye ilanga. Siyabonga, Tim, ngokuthatha indlela yakho ukudlula ukuziqhenya kwethu ukuze usisize sibe umzali wezingane zethu zibe abantu abadala abaphumelelayo.

Namuhla, masizibophezele ndawonye ukuze siyeke ukuthulisa amazwibela kaMoya oNgcwele futhi esikhundleni salokho sichoboze amandla okuzidla ezimpilweni zethu. Siyayidinga, futhi izingane zethu ziyayidinga. Badidekile. Abazi ukuthi iyiphi inguqulo yethu abazomodela ngayo impilo yabo. Ingabe nguye osho lokhu noma owenza lokhuya?

Ingabe sifuna ingane yethu ilinde kuze kushadelwe ize ifike ocansini? Ingabe ukuphila kwethu, ukuzijabulisa kwethu, abangane bethu abaseduze, namazwi ethu adlulisela lokho kubaluleka kubo? Ingabe sifuna izingane zethu zibe nemilomo ehlanzekile? Imilomo yethu ithini ngakho? Ingabe ngempela “cishe isikhathi sokulala” ngo-6:58 PM—kungani sihlala sisho njalo?

U-Tim uthi, “Ukungaguquguquki kudala ukungazethembi ezinganeni zethu.” Ngakho-ke, sikuzala kanjani ukuphepha? Ukuvumelana. Kodwa singaphila kanjani ngokungaguquki? Masibeke phansi ukuziqhenya kwethu, sizwe uTim, bese sifunda lokho ngokungangabazeki imicabango kaJesu ebhalwe kahle mayelana nokuziphatha komuntu: INtshumayelo YaseNtabeni.

 

 

Hlela: Dala uhlelo lokungaguquguquki ekukhuliseni kwakho umzali. Yenza uhlu lwamagugu abalulekile ozowabeka futhi uwadlalele izingane zakho.

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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

Udkt. Tim Elmore ujoyina i-Life.Church ukuze wabelane Ngamaphutha Amakhulu Angu-12 Angagwenywa Abazali. Sonke sifunela izingane zethu okungcono kakhulu, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izinhloso zethu ezinhle zidukisa izindlela zazo. Masilungise inkambo futhi siholele izingane zethu ekubeni abantu abadala abaphumelelayo nabalandeli bakaKristu abazinikele ngokugcwele. Ukuze uthole okunye okuqukethwe, bheka okuningi ku-finds.life.church

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