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Sisusa Imiphumela

Ikhanda lakho liyaduma. Uzama ukwenza okuthile, ngakho-ke uthatha isidambisi sobuhlungu. Ngakusasa kuyenzeka futhi. Iviki elimatasa, ngakho-ke uphinda uveze elinye. Ubona ukuminyana okuncane ngosuku olulandelayo, kanye nekhanda elibuhlungu. Esikhundleni sokuphumula, uthatha enye. Ekugcineni, ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa zokususa izimpawu, uyabona ukuthi ubulokhu uvala umkhuhlane omncane ophenduke isifo esibi esibi. Labo bethu abake babhekana nalokhu bayazi ukuthi nakuba singenza kube lula okwesikhashana ngokususa imiphumela yokugula, empeleni sandisa ukuhlupheka kwethu kwesikhathi eside.

Imiphumela injalo. Abakwazi ukuvinjwa noma bakhohliswe unomphela. Ngokushesha lapho sibhekana nazo, ziba mancane. Uma sibabambezela isikhathi eside, siba sikhulu futhi sibambi. Okuwukuphela kwendlela yokususa ngempela imiphumela ukubamukela ngqo futhi ubavumele ukuthi benze umsebenzi wabo kithi. Umbhali wencwadi yamaHeberu ukuveza lokhu esahlukweni seshumi nambili (MSG), Ngaleso sikhathi, ukuyala akujabulisi kangako. Kuhlale kuzwakala sengathi kuphambene nokusanhlamvu. Kamuva, kunjalo, kuba nemiphumela emihle kakhulu …

Ngakho-ke, siba kanjani abazali ngendlela ekhokha kahle ngekusasa lezingane zethu? Thina umzali isikhathi eside. Esikhundleni sokusabela ngokukhipha izingane zethu emiphumeleni yezenzo zazo, ngothando sivumela izingane zethu ukuba zibhekane neqiniso lezinqumo zazo. Kuvidiyo yanamuhla, u-Tim uchaza ukuthi sidinga ukuhwebelana kanjani ngemithetho yezibalo. Ngamanye amazwi, esikhundleni sokuthi sitshele izingane zethu, “Ungakwenzi lokho,” kufanele sizitshele, “Uma nenza kanjalo, lokhu kuzokwenzeka.”

 

 

Thandaza: Baba, ingabe ikhona imiphumela noma izindawo engidinga ukuyalwa ngazo lapho ngihlehlisa ukuphila kwami? Ingabe uzongibonisa izindlela engingenza ngazo umzali ngendlela ongikhulisa ngayo?

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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

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