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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

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Ukumelana, izinyembezi zezinwele, kanye nokululama okugcwele i-lactic-acid komsipha okuwenza uqine. Yiminyaka yezilwandle eziguquguqukayo namagagasi aphahlazayo enza i-driftwood ibe yinhle. Kuwumshikashika wokuphuma emfeceni onikeza uvemvane amandla okundiza. Futhi njengabazali, manje sesibonile izigigaba zethu zokuphila—ezinhle nezimbi—zisiqinisile futhi zasilungiselela impilo esiyiphilayo.

Encwadini yakhe, u-Tim ulandisa ngendaba yomzali waseMelika owathuthela nengane yakhe eneminyaka emithathu endaweni yaseSwitzerland. Umzali uthole ukuthi uthisha wengane yakhe wethule isaha njengethoyizi lokudlala lezingane ezineminyaka emithathu nemine ubudala. Lesi sigameko senzeke kuyona le ndawo lapho uthishanhloko enxusa abazali ukuthi bavumele izingane zabo ezineminyaka emine neyisihlanu ukuthi zihambe zodwa uma ziye esikoleni. Lo mzali waqunga isibindi wabuza omunye wothisha wengane yakhe eneminyaka emithathu ngezinqubo zokuphepha uma kunezimo eziphuthumayo. Ngemva kokuwaxosha ngokushesha, uthisha wanezela, “Ngibe uthisha weqembu lemidlalo yasehlathini iminyaka engu-10, futhi akukaze kudingeke ngifonele umzali ngenxa yokulimala.” Ngempela? Uthisha weqembu lokudlala lehlathi? Futhi, kuthiwani ngazo zonke izikhathi lapho kwakukhona ukulimala, kodwa awuzange ushaye ucingo? Imimese yamasosha aseSwitzerland isanda kuqala ukwenza umqondo omkhulu!

Ngokusobala laba thisha baseSwiss abamelene nje nokususa umzabalazo, kodwa bawethula ezinganeni ezisacathula. UJakobe, umfowabo kaJesu, wayenombono ofanayo ophambene ngomzabalazo. Akazange nje athi, “ukuzabalaza akukubi kangako.” Esahlukweni sokuqala sikaJakobe (MSG) uthe, Kubhekeni njengesipho nje, bangane, lapho uvivinyo nezinselele zifika kinina nhlangothi zonke. Njengoba uqhubeka ufunda kuJakobe, uzofunda ukuthi umzabalazo ukhiqiza kanjani. ukubekezela nokuvuthwa. Uzofunda nangoNkulunkulu ongenandaba lapho sicela usizo. Thina bazali kudingeka sivumele izingane zethu ukuba zithwale kanzima, kodwa nathi kudingeka sibe khona futhi sikulungele ukusiza.

 

 

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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

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