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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

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“Nakhu, sithandwa, ngivumele ngikwenzele lokho.” Imuphi umzali omuhle, onothando ongakaze abe necala lokubopha izicathulo zezingane zakhe, ukukha ngesipuni ukudla kwazo, ukuvala amaphutha azo, noma ukugcwalisa amaphepha azo isikhathi eside? Eqinisweni, leli cishe elinye lamaphutha avamile abazali abanempilo enhle, abanezisusa ezinhle.

Kwakukhona indoda elungile eBhayibhelini nayo engumzali futhi iyindoda kaNkulunkulu, u-Eli. Amadodana akhe amabili ayaziwa ngokusebenzisa kabi kwawo ethempelini likaNkulunkulu ngendlela enyantisayo njengendlela yokukhuluphalisa izisu zawo nokuxhaphaza abesifazane. Nokho, u-Eli uvezwa njengendoda elungile ehlonipha uNkulunkulu. Asiwutholi umlando onemininingwane wokuthi u-Eli wawakhulisa kanjani amadodana akhe esemancane, kodwa siyazi ukuthi lapho ethola ukuthi amadodana akhe ayenga abesifazane ethempelini ukuba balale nabo, wavele wakushaya indiva ukwenza kwabo, wabavumela ukuba balale nabo ethempelini. Bahlala ezikhundleni zabo ethempelini.

Ngokusekelwe kulokho esikwaziyo, singacabanga ukuthi amadodana ka-Eli awazange azuze izindima zawo zasethempelini ngenxa yokuzinikela kwawo kuNkulunkulu. Njengenhloko yethempeli, kungenzeka yini ukuthi u-Eli wabanika lezi zikhundla? Singenza ukuqagela okufundile ukuthi amadodana ka-Eli ayengenabo ubuhlobo obukhulu noNkulunkulu. Mhlawumbe nabo babethembele kubaba wabo ngalokho? Kuphephile ukucabanga ukuthi amadodana ka-Eli awazange athwale umthwalo wezenzo zawo. UmBhalo uphakamisa ukuthi u-Eli wabenzela lokho nabo. Ngandlela-thile, amadodana ka-Eli ayekholelwa ukuthi ayenelungelo lokuthatha ayekufuna kuNkulunkulu nakubantu baKhe. Cishe u-Eli wayengakuqaphelanga lokho, kodwa ukuphakamisa amadodana akhe yinto ayewadalele yona futhi.

Ngakho, esikhundleni sokuthi sizenzele izingane zethu, masikwenze nazo lapho zisencane futhi siziqondise ukuthi zizenzele ngokwazo njengoba zikhula. Masibe umqeqeshi wabo, hhayi umfihli wabo. Masibe umholi wabo, hhayi unkulunkulu wabo—umxhumanisi wabo, hhayi usonkontileka wabo.

 

 

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12 Huge Mistakes Parents Can Avoid

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