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Siqhakambisa Ukujabula

“Ngeke ujabule uma wenza lokho,” sisho njalo. “Akungijabulisi uma ukhuluma kanjalo,” sisho. Sithi: “Yeka indlela oziphatha ngayo, futhi ujabule. Sithi, “Uqinisekile ukuthi ungolungile? Ujabulile?" Sithi, “Umama noBaba ngeke besahlala ndawonye. Sijabule ngale ndlela.” Sikhuluma izinto eziningi eziholela izingane zethu ekukholelweni ukuthi injabulo iwumgomo omkhulu. Kodwa akusikho lokho kuphela. Bayezwa ngamasiko, esikoleni, kubangani, nakuzo zonke izindaba ezike zaphela, “ngenjabulo yaphakade.”

Ukuphela kwendlela izingane zethu ezingabona ngayo injabulo akuyona inhloso yokuphila ukuthi sikubone kuqala. Ngemuva kwalokho sidinga ukusebenzisa amahora ethu angu-3,000 ethonya laminyaka yonke ukuze sikhombise izingane zethu. Uma ukuphila kungekona ukujabula, kumayelana nani kumayelana nani? Ujesu wephula injongo yokuphila waba yimithetho emibili elula. Thanda uNkulunkulu ngakho konke onakho, futhi uthande umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena. Ngamanye amazwi, chitha ukuphila kwakho kuNkulunkulu nakwabanye. Akusibize ngokuthi “ukuphila impilo egxile kwabanye.”

“Ukwaneliseka ekuphileni kwenzeka kaningi lapho abantu bematasatasa ngezinto ezibenza bazikhohlwe, balahlekelwe isikhathi futhi bayeke ukukhathazeka,” kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uDkt. Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. Usukhohliwe nguwe njengoba ufunda leligama lokugcina? Ngokujulile nokho, funda emuva ngesimangalo sikaDkt. kuvumelana nezinyathelo ezimbili zikaJesu, icebo lokuphila. Lapho sizichitha ngenxa kaNkulunkulu nabanye, asinaso isikhathi sokukhathazeka ngokushisekela injabulo, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi siyalahlekelwa. Eqinisweni, yilapho-ke sithola njengomphumela wokuphila ngendlela uJesu asiyala ukuba siphile ngayo.

Kodwa uJesu akagcinanga nje ngokutshela abafundi bakhe ukuthi baphile ngale ndlela, Wangena othulini wabageza izinyawo. Ngokufanayo, kufanele siguqe phansi—sidlule endaweni yethu ejabulisayo—kanye nenkonzo eyisibonelo ezinganeni zethu.

 

 

Zilolonge: Chitha isikhathi usiza (ingane) izingane zakho zithole isipho noma insiza ezinayo, futhi uhlanganyele ekusebenzeleni omunye umuntu.

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