Thola i AppIzingxoxo ezincane ngosizi: Ithemba lamaholideIsampula
Ah, amaholide! Isikhathi lapho ukuwa kwezimbali namaqabunga kusikhumbuza ukuthi i-Thanksgiving isendleleni futhi ukulindela uKhisimusi kuseduze ekhoneni. Isikhathi lapho wonke umuntu egcwele ukubonga, uthando, ukuzwana komndeni, kanye nenjabulo, akunjalo?
Ngeshwa, lokhu akunjalo kuwo wonke umuntu—ikakhulukazi labo abashonelwe abathandekayo, labo abalahlekelwa ubuhlobo obukhulu noma ababhekene nezingxabano zomndeni, noma labo abalahlekelwe kakhulu noma abacindezelekile.
Ngisakhula, ngangiwathanda njalo amaholide futhi ngiwalangazelela kakhulu.
Lapho udadewethu oneminyaka engu-22 eshona ngoSuku lwe-Thanksgiving, esikhundleni sokuthi amaholide abe isikhathi esimnandi kakhulu sonyaka, amaholide aba isikhathi esesabekayo nesinzima kakhulu sonyaka.
Ulithola kanjani ithemba ngesikhathi samaholide?
Ungabahlonipha kanjani obathandayo abathandekayo manje abagubha amaholide eZulwini noNkulunkulu?
Ingabe injabulo ingenzeka ngesikhathi samaholidi...ikakhulukazi phakathi nosizi olukhulu?
Ungawakha kanjani amaholide anenjongo agcwele ukuthula, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni?
Ngicela uhlanganyele nami ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezizayo njengoba ngiphendula le mibuzo neminye.
"Baba waseZulwini,
Ngithandazela bonke abahlukumezekile ngesikhathi samaholide-ikakhulukazi lesi sikhathi sokubonga kanye nesikakhisimusi. Sicela uphulukise futhi ududuze ngokujulile izinhliziyo zabo ezibuhlungu. Sicela ubathele ngomusa nesihawu Sakho usuku nosuku. Babambe ezingalweni Zakho zothando futhi ubathwale nakho konke okuwusizi NgeGama likaJesu, ameni!”
Lokhu kuzinikela © 2015 ngu-Kim Niles/Grief Bites. Wonke Amalungelo Agodliwe. Isetshenziswa ngemvume.
Ngeshwa, lokhu akunjalo kuwo wonke umuntu—ikakhulukazi labo abashonelwe abathandekayo, labo abalahlekelwa ubuhlobo obukhulu noma ababhekene nezingxabano zomndeni, noma labo abalahlekelwe kakhulu noma abacindezelekile.
Ngisakhula, ngangiwathanda njalo amaholide futhi ngiwalangazelela kakhulu.
Lapho udadewethu oneminyaka engu-22 eshona ngoSuku lwe-Thanksgiving, esikhundleni sokuthi amaholide abe isikhathi esimnandi kakhulu sonyaka, amaholide aba isikhathi esesabekayo nesinzima kakhulu sonyaka.
Ulithola kanjani ithemba ngesikhathi samaholide?
Ungabahlonipha kanjani obathandayo abathandekayo manje abagubha amaholide eZulwini noNkulunkulu?
Ingabe injabulo ingenzeka ngesikhathi samaholidi...ikakhulukazi phakathi nosizi olukhulu?
Ungawakha kanjani amaholide anenjongo agcwele ukuthula, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani empilweni?
Ngicela uhlanganyele nami ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezizayo njengoba ngiphendula le mibuzo neminye.
"Baba waseZulwini,
Ngithandazela bonke abahlukumezekile ngesikhathi samaholide-ikakhulukazi lesi sikhathi sokubonga kanye nesikakhisimusi. Sicela uphulukise futhi ududuze ngokujulile izinhliziyo zabo ezibuhlungu. Sicela ubathele ngomusa nesihawu Sakho usuku nosuku. Babambe ezingalweni Zakho zothando futhi ubathwale nakho konke okuwusizi NgeGama likaJesu, ameni!”
Lokhu kuzinikela © 2015 ngu-Kim Niles/Grief Bites. Wonke Amalungelo Agodliwe. Isetshenziswa ngemvume.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Kwabaningi, amaholidi ayisikhathi senjabulo enkulu...kodwa kwenzekani lapho amaholide engasemnandi futhi eba inselele ngenxa yosizi olujulile noma ukulahlekelwa? Lolu hlelo lokufunda olukhethekile luzosiza labo abasosizini ukuthi bathole induduzo nethemba kumaholidi, futhi lutshengise indlela yokwenza inkathi yamaholide enenjongo nakuba kunesimo sosizi olujulile.
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Sithanda ukubonga uKim Niles, umbhali wencwadi ethi, Buyisa Amandla Emva Kokukhahlamezwa Impilo, nangokusinika lolu hlelo. Ukuze uthole udaba olwengeziwe, sicela uvakashele: www.griefbites.com
