Your Post-Break-Up Guide to Being Alright Àpẹrẹ

Turn to God

Do you trust God? Do you believe that He works ALL things for the good of those who love and follow Him? If so, you can trust Him, even now, in the midst of a post-break-up season. But just because you trust God doesn’t mean you don’t have questions, especially if you thought you were dating “the one.”

One question that might be swirling around in your mind right now is why? Why did the relationship end? Why didn’t things go right or well? Why did they break up with me? Why did they not treat me right? Why didn’t God intervene and make things better?

But no matter what happened or why it happened, one thing remains true: God knows what He is doing. His grace is enough, no matter who messed up in the relationship. His love never ends, no matter how unloved you feel right now. And His timing is right, even if you feel like the relationship wasn’t supposed to end. God’s plans are perfect, and He works out everything exactly as it should be when you follow Him wholeheartedly.

So, rather than questioning yourself or trying to get answers from your ex, turn to God, talk to God, and trust God above all else. Prayer can offer solace and peace of mind during difficult times. Scripture can provide wisdom and guidance on how to navigate relationships. And in moments of heartache, turning to God can help remind you of what is truly important in life.

He is the only one who can provide peace to your hurting heart and anxious mind. He is the only one who can turn something painful into something good. He is the only one who can work everything–even heartbreak–out for good.