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Kube ngamava am ukuba andifane ndikwazi “ukulungisa” indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu abacela umngeni ebomini bam. Ukuphendula ngeemvakalelo kubantu abanzima akuze kuvelise utshintsho oluhlala ixesha elide. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba mhlawumbi uThixo ukubeke ebomini bomntu onzima hayi ukuze ulungise ukuziphatha kwabo okungaqhelekanga, kodwa ukubekele ukuba ubathandazele. Sisibalo esilula uThixo asinika sona ukuze sijongane naloo marhamente anomsindo kunye nenkathazo eluntwini: Uthando + Umthandazo = Uloyiso.
Iqhinga likaThixo alifane libandakanye iimvakalelo kodwa lisoloko linemilinganiselo yothando nomthandazo oxutywe kunye ukuze kufikelelwe kwisigqibo esoyisayo. UThixo akakudalelanga ukuba ube sisivunguvungu esisebenzisa amagama ukuhlaba, ukwenzakalisa nokulawula abantu. UThixo ukudalele ube yindoda okanye ibhinqa elizinikele ngakumbi eBukumkanini kunokuba uzinikele kwisiqu sakho. Abantu abanzima banokuwabaleka amazwi akho, kodwa abanakuze bayibaleke imithandazo yakho. Asinakukwazi kwaye akufuneki kubekho uqhawuko lonxibelelwano phakathi koko sikukholelwayo kunye nendlela esibaphatha ngayo abanye, nokuba banzima kangakanani na.
Kukho ichiza lobukrakra nomsindo; kuthiwa bububele. Kukho indlela yokoyisa umsindo nengxokozelo; kwaziwa ngokuba nentliziyo ethambileyo. Kukwakho nendlela yokoyisa ukunyelisa; ibonwa njengoxolelo.
Kufuna umKristu oqolileyo, ohlonela uThixo ukusikelela abatshutshisi ebomini. Siyasikelela ngolwimi lwethu, ngeentliziyo zethu, ngeemvakalelo nangezenzo zethu. Abanye benu banokucinga, "Ewe, kodwa uCarol, awumazi uMakazi uMatilda! Akathandeki ngayo yonke indlela onokucinga ngayo!" Mhlawumbi awufuni kuyiva impendulo yam kwi meko kaMakazi wakho uMatilda kodwa nantsi, Umntu uyamthanda uMakazi wakho uMatilda kwaye igama lakhe lomntu nguThixo, ngoko qalisa ukwenza njengoTata wakho!
Sonke ngandlel’ ithile asithandeki, akunjalo? Sonke sinokuba nobuqhophololo, sithethe ngokuphandle kunye nokuxambulisana ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba isizathu sokuba uninzi lwethu lungathandeki kungenxa yokuba eyona nto iphambili ngaphakathi sikhalela ukuthandwa. Kuya kubakho amaxesha amaninzi ebomini xa isigqibo sakho sokuthanda abantu abazincanda siya kubahlutha ubungozi ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba uyala ukuxolela uze usikelele abantu abanzima ebomini bakho, usengozini yokuba ngumntu onzima. Esisibalo asisileli kwaye siyakuqinisekisa uloyiso lwakho lokugqibela:
Uthando + Umthandazo = Uloyiso!
Iqhinga likaThixo alifane libandakanye iimvakalelo kodwa lisoloko linemilinganiselo yothando nomthandazo oxutywe kunye ukuze kufikelelwe kwisigqibo esoyisayo. UThixo akakudalelanga ukuba ube sisivunguvungu esisebenzisa amagama ukuhlaba, ukwenzakalisa nokulawula abantu. UThixo ukudalele ube yindoda okanye ibhinqa elizinikele ngakumbi eBukumkanini kunokuba uzinikele kwisiqu sakho. Abantu abanzima banokuwabaleka amazwi akho, kodwa abanakuze bayibaleke imithandazo yakho. Asinakukwazi kwaye akufuneki kubekho uqhawuko lonxibelelwano phakathi koko sikukholelwayo kunye nendlela esibaphatha ngayo abanye, nokuba banzima kangakanani na.
Kukho ichiza lobukrakra nomsindo; kuthiwa bububele. Kukho indlela yokoyisa umsindo nengxokozelo; kwaziwa ngokuba nentliziyo ethambileyo. Kukwakho nendlela yokoyisa ukunyelisa; ibonwa njengoxolelo.
Kufuna umKristu oqolileyo, ohlonela uThixo ukusikelela abatshutshisi ebomini. Siyasikelela ngolwimi lwethu, ngeentliziyo zethu, ngeemvakalelo nangezenzo zethu. Abanye benu banokucinga, "Ewe, kodwa uCarol, awumazi uMakazi uMatilda! Akathandeki ngayo yonke indlela onokucinga ngayo!" Mhlawumbi awufuni kuyiva impendulo yam kwi meko kaMakazi wakho uMatilda kodwa nantsi, Umntu uyamthanda uMakazi wakho uMatilda kwaye igama lakhe lomntu nguThixo, ngoko qalisa ukwenza njengoTata wakho!
Sonke ngandlel’ ithile asithandeki, akunjalo? Sonke sinokuba nobuqhophololo, sithethe ngokuphandle kunye nokuxambulisana ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba isizathu sokuba uninzi lwethu lungathandeki kungenxa yokuba eyona nto iphambili ngaphakathi sikhalela ukuthandwa. Kuya kubakho amaxesha amaninzi ebomini xa isigqibo sakho sokuthanda abantu abazincanda siya kubahlutha ubungozi ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba uyala ukuxolela uze usikelele abantu abanzima ebomini bakho, usengozini yokuba ngumntu onzima. Esisibalo asisileli kwaye siyakuqinisekisa uloyiso lwakho lokugqibela:
Uthando + Umthandazo = Uloyiso!
Malunga nesi Sicwangciso
UThixo wakwenza kwaye wakubeka ngalo mzuzu ngeli xesha, ukuba uthande abangathandekiyo, ubonakalise uxolo kwisiphithiphithi, kwaye ubonise uvuyo olungenasiphelo kuyo yonke imeko. Oku kusenokubonakala kungenakwenzeka, kodwa unokukwenza oku ngokufunda oko iBhayibhile ikutshoyo ngeemvakalelo zakho zemvelo zobuntu nendlela yokuzilawula. Olu nqulo lugubungela imiceli mngeni eqhelekileyo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha engaqhelekanga esijongana nayo yonke imihla, kwaye ibonelela ngeembekiselo zeBhayibhile malunga nendlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakho ngendlela kaThixo.
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