Wana appRefresh Your Marriage in 31 DaysChikamu
"About fighting and arguing"
Fighting comes from arrogance or when somebody feels inferior or somebody assumes he/she knows it all. When we consider this, we will learn something about an atmosphere of constructive debate.
Be mindful of the words you use. Try to always keep your counterpart’s situation in your mind when you are having an emotionally loaded conversation. Force your ears to listen even when they are going deaf. You have two ears. One for yourself and one for your wife.
And please, never be too proud to say the following words: “I was wrong. I am sorry. Please forgive me.” This way you fight without leaving scars.
MARRIAGE-BOOSTER
When having the next argument, put yourself in other person’s shoes and try to think from their perspective. Don’t ever let the sun go down on your anger.
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About this Plan
31 short, smart and cheeky texts want to help you to get your marriage back on track. And to keep the fire burning in your relationship. The authors Susanna and Leo Bigger want to encourage you to try something new and to tackle old issues: listening to each other, talk about sexuality and feelings, finally introduce pocket money, allow the romance a comeback, read the Song of Songs to each other. Are you ready to put more wood on the fire?
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