Ukuphila Kushintshile: EmshadweniIsampula

Living Changed: In Marriage

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Ukuphilisa

Uma nishada nahlala ndawonye, ​​kuningi nobabili eniza nakho. Umsebenzi wakho wobuciko, isitulo sakhe asithandayo, iqoqo lakho lenkomishi yekhofi, umdlalo wakhe wekhonsoli, kanye neloli lamabhokisi agcwele izinto zakho. Nakuba ningase niphikisane ngokuthi yini okufanele uyigcine nokuthi yini okufanele uyilahle, empeleni umthwalo wakho ongabonwa oyingozi kakhulu emshadweni wakho.

Akukhathalekile ukuthi uyakubona noma cha, kungenzeka ukuthi uqale umshado wakho unezilonda ezingapholi ebudlelwaneni obedlule. Mhlawumbe isoka elidala noma owayengumyeni akazange akunake ngokwanele futhi wakushiya uzizwe ungafunwa. Mhlawumbe umzali noma ingane yakini ihlale ikudilika kangangokuthi manje uyesaba ukukhuluma okucabangayo. Kungakhathaleki ukuthi izilonda zakho ziyini, kubalulekile ukuzibona ukuze imiphumela yazo ingahlali futhi ibangele ukungezwani emshadweni wakho.

Cabanga ngokuthi yini ebangela intukuthelo noma ukudabuka kuwe. Ngezinye izikhathi into encane kakhulu ingaba umsusa. Lokho ngokuvamile kuyinkomba yesilonda esingapholi.

Uma usuthole amagama noma izenzo ezikuphathe kabi, cabanga ukuthi kungani. Cela uNkulunkulu akusize ubone imbangela yokusabela kwakho futhi umvumele ukuba akulethele induduzo nokuphulukisa. Ungase uthande ukuvakashela nomeluleki ukuze uthole usizo olwengeziwe ekuhlonzeni amanxeba akho kanye nokubhekana nemuva lakho. Ukucela usizo akulona uphawu lobuthakathaka kodwa wukuthobeka nokuhlakanipha.

Njengoba ubhekana nobuhlungu besikhathi esedlule, ungase ubone ukuthi ubugodle intethelelo kumuntu okuphathe kabi. Ungase ungacabangi ukuthi bafanelwe ukuxolelwa, kodwa ngiyakunxusa ukuba ukhethe ukuthethelela noma kunjalo. Silandela uNkulunkulu othethelelayo owathi, ngoKristu, wasinika isilawuli esihlanzekile esingasisebenzelanga noma esisifanele. Njengabalandeli bakaKristu, sibizelwe ukuba sifane Naye futhi sithethelele, noma ngabe ukuthethelelwa kungafanele. Yenza ukukhetha ukuyeka ukucasuka futhi udedele ubuhlungu. Khetha ukuthembela kuNkulunkulu ngomphumela ngoba ulungile. UNkulunkulu ufuna uxolele ngoba ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye, ufuna ukhululeke ekungathetheleli okubangela umunyu enhliziyweni yakho.

Njengoba usebenza ngokuthethelela, cela uNkulunkulu ukuthi esikhundleni semicabango emibi nobuhlungu afake iqiniso Lakhe. Nguye yedwa ongalungisa izingcezu eziphukile zenhliziyo yakho futhi adale ubuhle ngomlotha. Cela uNkulunkulu ukuthi athambise inhliziyo yakho kwabanye futhi akusize uzibone ngendlela akubona ngayo. Lapho uvumela uNkulunkulu ukuba apholise amanxeba akho futhi akuphilise, mancane amathuba okuthi uphendule umyeni wakho ngenxa yokwesaba, ukucasuka, noma ukungabaza.

Ukupholisa amanxeba akho kuzoletha impilo emshadweni wakho. Nokho, akubona nje ubuhlungu besikhathi esidlule okufanele ubhekane nabo. Kufanele futhi ukhethe ukuthethelela amacala ansuku zonke njengezitsha ezakha kusinki namasokisi ahlala eceleni kodwa hhayi ebhokisini. Kufanele uxolele izinkulumo zokunganaki kanye nezinsuku ezikhohliwe. Ukuthethelela kuyinto okumele yenzeke ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Umyeni wakho akaphelele futhi ngeke aphelele. Njengawe, udinga umusa. Akuyena futhi wonke umuntu wesilisa owake wakuphatha kabi. Ungagxumeli eziphethweni futhi ucabange okubi kakhulu ngaye. Kunalokho, xoxani nixoxe ngezinto ngokukhululekile. Noma nini lapho kungenzeka, sheshani ukuthethelela izono ezincane futhi nihlalisane ngokuthula.

Njengoba ululama, ungase ufune ukukhomba izimbangela namanxeba okubona kumyeni wakho. Nakuba kungase kuvele endaweni enhle yokufuna ukuthi athole ukuphulukiswa eduze kwakho, yenza okusemandleni akho ukubamba ulimi lwakho. Vumela uhambo lwakho lokuphulukisa luzikhulumele. UNkulunkulu uyoshukumisa inhliziyo yomyeni wakho ngesikhathi Sakhe esiphelele, futhi ushintsho alubonayo kuwe luyoba uhlobo olungcono kakhulu lwesikhuthazo.

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Living Changed: In Marriage

Awukho umshado ophelele ngoba umshado uwukuhlangana kwabantu ababili abangaphelele. Kodwa ngosizo lukaNkulunkulu, ungaba nomshado omuhle-hhayi ngokumcela ukuba alungise owakwakho, kodwa ngokumcela ukuba enze umsebenzi enhliziyweni yakho. Lolu hlelo lwezinsuku ezi-5 luzokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuphulukiswa, ukuthula, kanye nokuzethemba kuKristu ukuze uthande owakwakho kahle futhi uguqule umshado wakho.

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