Thola i AppUkuphila Kushintshile: EmshadweniIsampula
Unxantathu
Umshado uyisipho esihle esivela kuNkulunkulu. Yisibonelo esiseduze kakhulu esinaso Emhlabeni sothando lukaNkulunkulu ngathi. Lapho sithanda umngani wethu womshado njengoba uNkulunkulu ayehlosile, umshado awunabugovu, uyaphana, unesihawu futhi nokuzibophezela.
Umshado ungaphezu kwencwadi efakwe enkantolo noma izifungo ezenziwa phambi kwabathandekayo. Kuyisivumelwano. Kuyisivumelwano esibophezelayo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, noNkulunkulu. Kuyisithembiso sezindlela ezintathu, futhi lapho senza uNkulunkulu ingxenye yomshado wethu, senza kangcono ekuthandeni omunye nomunye.
Cabanga ngonxantathu noNkulunkulu phezulu kanye nendoda nomfazi abamele amanye akhona amabili. Njengoba indoda nowesifazane besondela kuNkulunkulu, nabo bayasondelana. Ngokufanayo, lapho bethembeka ngokwengeziwe kuNkulunkulu, bayothembeka ngokwengeziwe komunye nomunye. Lapho bezinikele ngokwengeziwe kuNkulunkulu, yilapho beyozinikela ngokwengeziwe emshadweni wabo.
Uma isihluthulelo somshado oqinile siwubudlelwane obuqinile noNkulunkulu, khona-ke into engcono kakhulu esingayenza ukuze sithande umlingani wethu kahle ukuchitha isikhathi samabomu sifana noJesu. Naphezu kokuthi amahlaya othando angathanda ukuthi sikholwe ukuthi, akekho umuntu ongasiphelelisa. UNkulunkulu kuphela ongenza lokho.
UDkt. U-Les no-Leslie Parrott, ababhali be-Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts,bakusho ngale ndlela: “Uma uzama ukuthola ukusondelana nomunye umuntu ngaphambi kokuthola umuzwa wokuphelela uwedwa, bonke ubudlelwano bakho buyoba. umzamo wokuziphelelisa.”
Uma ufuna umshado oqinile, gxila ekuzithuthukiseni. Sebenza ekuthetheleleni nasekuphulukiseni, ukuze ubuhlungu bakho obedlule buthinti ubuhlobo bakho bamanje. Funda ukulwa namanga esitha, futhi uthathe imicabango yakho ukuze uphile nsuku zonke ngokuqiniseka kuKristu. Kholwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu udale zonke izitho zakho ngamabomu ukuze wenze lokho akudalele ukuthi ukwenze. Ungagxili ekuzameni ukulungisa owakwakho ngoba uguquko kuwe oluzoshintsha umshado wakho.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Awukho umshado ophelele ngoba umshado uwukuhlangana kwabantu ababili abangaphelele. Kodwa ngosizo lukaNkulunkulu, ungaba nomshado omuhle-hhayi ngokumcela ukuba alungise owakwakho, kodwa ngokumcela ukuba enze umsebenzi enhliziyweni yakho. Lolu hlelo lwezinsuku ezi-5 luzokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuphulukiswa, ukuthula, kanye nokuzethemba kuKristu ukuze uthande owakwakho kahle futhi uguqule umshado wakho.
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