Thola i AppPhefumulela Intshiseko Yomoya Emshadweni WakhoIsampula
“Ushade Njengendela”
Akulona yini iqiniso ukuthi izingxabano eziningi zomshado zibangelwa ukudumazeka ngabalingani bethu bomshado? Sifuna ukuthi babe utho noma benze okuthile noma babambe okuthize kepha kundabi njalo noma bengakwenzi, bese siyazidabukela. Sifuna ngempela ukuba basithande njengoba uNkulunkulu esithanda. Silindele ukuthi bazi nje uma sinosuku olunzima; ukwazi ukuthi siqamba amanga lapho sithi, “Ungakhathazeki. Akuyona into enkulu. Angidingi lutho olukhethekile”; ukwazi ukuthi sidinga ukuba baqine noma bathambe, bavume noma babambelele, ngoba yilokho esikudingayo ukuba bakwenze. Ukube bebesithanda ngokweqiniso, bebezokwazi, akunjalo?
Yiba neqiniso: Awuze wacabangi noma uzizwe ngaleyo ndlela ngezinye izikhathi?
Futhi uyabona ukuthi lokho kuwumthwalo ongenakwenzeka kumngane womshado akunjalo?
Kodwa kuthiwani uma ngifuna “umshado wendela”? kuthiwani uma nginquma ukuthi ngizoncika kuNkulunkulu yedwa, ngingalindeli lutho kumngani wami womshado kodwa ngincike ngokuphelele kuNkulunkulu ngazo zonke izidingo zami, kuhlanganise nezidingo ezingokomzwelo nezobudlelwane
Khona-ke esikhundleni sokucasukela lokho umngani wami womshado angakwenzi, ngizokhungatheka (ngendlela engeyimbi) ngayo yonke into encane ayenzayo. Ngizogcwala ukubonga esikhundleni sokucasuka.
Ingabe akukhona okuphambene nalokho okwenzeka emshadweni? lapho uthandana nomuntu futhi ekwenzela into enhle, ucabanga ukuthi: Yeka indlela enhle ngayo! Uma umshada futhi engafinyeleli emngceleni othile wokupha izipho, uyacabanga: Yilokhu kuphela angithole khona? Ngokujulile?
Yingakho ngifuna “umshado wendela,” izinzuzo zokushada nowesifazane owesaba uNkulunkulu, kodwa ngesimo sengqondo sendela, ngingalindeli lutho, ngithembele kuNkulunkulu, kanjalo ngibe nokubonga ngobuqotho nganoma yini ekhethwa umngani wami womshado ukuze ungibusise.
* Ingabe ubona isimo sakho sengqondo sigcwele ukubonga, noma esigcwele ukucasuka? Ukuba “nomshado wendela” kungabuthuthukisa kanjani ubuhlobo bakho nomngani wakho womshado?
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Ithathwe encwadini yakhe entsha ethi "A Lifelong Love," uGary Thomas ukhuluma ngezinjongo zaphakade zomshado. Funda amathuluzi asebenzayo ukusiza ukwakha umshado wakho ube ubudlelwano obukhuthazayo, ukusabalalisa impilo engokomoya kwabanye.
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