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Breathe Spiritual Passion Into Your Marriage

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“Uhlukile Kwabanye”

Ake ngibeke isisho somfundisi wangekhulunyaka leshumi nesishiyagalolunye u-Horace Bushnell ngolimi lomshado: “Abekho abashadikazi abake babizelwe ukuba bafane nabanye. Unkulunkulu unezinhlelo eziningi ngabashadile njengoba enabashadile; ngakho-ke akafuni neze ukuthi balinganise impilo yabo nganoma yimuphi omunye umshado.”

Uhlanganisa ingxenye eyodwa yezithandani ezihlukile. Awukho omunye umshado oneziphiwo zakho, ubuthakathaka bakho, umlando wakho, amandla akho okuguquguquka, izingane zakho, ubizo lwakho. Kunenkululeko enkulu ekwamukeleni ubunjalo bethu bomshado njengoba bunjalo: singase siqine kule ndawo, sibe buthaka kulokhu, sibesengozini laphaya, singangeneki nalaphaya, siphumelele kulokhu, sivame ukwehluleka kulokho, kodwa singabashadikazi abayingqayizivele ababizwe nguNkulunkulu ukufeza injongo yethu eyingqayizivele kulo mhlaba.

UNkulunkulu umise ikhaya lakho nomshado wakho, futhi yileyo mpilo afuna uyiphile. Ungalokothi ubheke kwezinye izithandani ukukala ukubaluleka kwakho; bheka kuNkulunkulu ukuba agcwalise ubizo lwakho. Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye abashadile ukukala injabulo yakho; qhathanisa ukulalela kwakho nohlelo lukaNkulunkulu empilweni yakho ukukala ukwethembeka kwakho.

Yaneliseka ngendaba yakho, ubunjalo benu njengabashadikazi. Kujabulele. Ungalokothi ukuqhathanise. Vele uthembeke embonweni oyingqayizivele uNkulunkulu awunikeze okhethekile onguwe (futhi lokho kusho wena wonke). Unkulunkulu akadingi omunye umshado onjengalona asevele ewenzile. Unobuhlakani kakhulu kunalokho. Kunalokho, ufuna ukukhulula futhi abusise umshado oyingqayizivele wakho.

* Yiziphi izithandani enijwayele ukuziqhathanisa nazo? Uyakholwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu unani nobabili ohambweni olukhethekile ngezinjongo Zakhe? Ukuphila kanjani lokho?

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Breathe Spiritual Passion Into Your Marriage

Ithathwe encwadini yakhe entsha ethi "A Lifelong Love," uGary Thomas ukhuluma ngezinjongo zaphakade zomshado. Funda amathuluzi asebenzayo ukusiza ukwakha umshado wakho ube ubudlelwano obukhuthazayo, ukusabalalisa impilo engokomoya kwabanye.

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Sithanda ukubonga David C Cook ngokusinikeza loluhlelo. Ngeminye imininingwane, sicela uvakashele: http://www.dccpromo.com/a_lifelong_love/