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Day 6: Hope & Patience

Marriage is hard, and it's okay to feel that way. You're not alone in this journey. We all face struggles, and it's important to remember that every couple has a unique story. There will be seasons of joy and seasons of trial. But through it all, there is hope.

I know that sometimes, no matter what we do or how long we wait, marriages sometimes end in divorce. I've been there myself. I was devastated when my previous marriage ended, but I knew I had done my best. And God restored me with a wonderful husband who loves and values me in ways I never thought possible. But even in this marriage, there are challenges. No marriage is perfect. None.

If you know in your heart that you've done all you can, then trust that the rest is in God's hands. You are not a failure. You are loved and valued by God, and He can use you through any situation. Not only will He see you through the outcome, but He will even use it for your good and His glory. I've seen it for myself.

Stay in faith. Give it time. God will work it all out for your good. Remember, you are only accountable for your actions, not your spouse's. So do the best you can. Stay prayerful. Have accountability partners. Seek wise counsel. Take things day by day. Don't worry about tomorrow. Focus on today and trust that God will give you the strength you need.

What strength do you need from God today? What does "good" look like for you at the end of this journey? Can you give things time to see what God does? What can help you on this journey to continue in hope and perseverance?

Remember, you are not alone. God is with you, loves you, and Sees what's happening in your life.

Reflection:

What is your happy ending with your struggles? What do you think God desires? How can you seek God to get clear direction from Him as well as be at peace with knowing He holds your future?