Be Yourself

Genesis 1:27

“So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”

Ephesians 2:10

“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”

Psalm 139:13-14

“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”

You were made in the image of God. You are His handiwork–His masterpiece. God knit you together, intentionally designing your personality, your sense of humor, what brings you joy, your passions and desires. You are wonderfully made. Remember that as you meet your partner’s parents for the first time. You don’t need to be anyone but who God created you to be.

Let all the wonderful things about who you are shine through every conversation. Show your big heart and respectful attitude. Share the things you’re passionate about and where you’re being called in life. Exude all the characteristics inside of you that represent Christ in you.

Make some light conversation, focusing on positive topics such as what brought them together or funny stories about growing up with your partner. Initiate supportive discussions about their interests and never hesitate to express compliments when the occasion arises. Show your genuine interest in getting to know their perspectives by asking insightful questions and reflecting on the answers they give you.

Put your best foot forward and make a good impression by bringing the best version of yourself to the table. If these people become your in-laws, there will be plenty of time to talk about serious topics or share the more challenging aspects of your life. It doesn’t need to happen during the first meeting. By being genuine and kind, you'll make a great impression and set the foundation for a strong relationship with your partner's parents–one that’s based on honor and mutual respect.

A Prayer for Confidence

God,

My hope and confidence are found in you. I know I am loved by you, which is the most important thing in the world. I pray that my partner’s parents would see the good in me and the positive attributes you created me with. I ask that you would help me show myself as Christ-like in what I say and do. Please bless my first meeting with my partner’s parents and give me peace and confidence as I share who I am with these people who mean so much to me.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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