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“INHLOSO YOKUXOXA”
Baningi abantu abakukhubile, futhi abazi nokuthi bakwenzile lokho.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukhubekise abanye abantu futhi abakakakutsheli.
Ngibe nabangani abambalwa eminyakeni edlule abangenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ngingakhuluma kanjani nabanye noma nami mayelana nezinkinga zobuhlanga ezikhona ezweni lethu ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi zingase zibonakale zicasula. Nokho, ngikholwa ukuthi into engcono kakhulu esingayenza ezingxoxweni ezinjengalezi ukubuza imibuzo eqotho othandweni.
Ukubuza imibuzo kungakha inkulumompendulwano enempilo phakathi kwezihloko ezishubile. Lokhu kukunikeza ithuba lokuqonda umbono wabanye abantu futhi kunciphise igebe lokucasula ukuze ulawule izingxoxo zakho.
Ngiyayithanda indlela uPawulu akhuluma ngayo ngalokhu kwabaseKolose:
“Umgomo uwukukhipha okuhle
kwabanye engxoxweni, hhayi
ukubabeka phansi, hhayi ukubahlukumeza.”
KwabaseKolose 4:6 (MSG)
Ngeke ukwazi ukulawula bonke abantu abazokucasula empilweni yakho, kodwa ungaba ngamabomu ngengxenye yakho ezingxoxweni onazo nabanye abantu. Yenza isinqumo namuhla sokuthi inhloso yezingxoxo zakho zesikhathi esizayo kanye nokusebenzisana kuzoba ukuveza okuhle kwabanye abantu.
Khomba okuhle kumngani.
Tshela othile ukuthi wenzeni kahle; kungenzeka ukuthi sebekhohliwe noma abakaqapheli.
Ngena ku-akhawunti yabo yenkundla yezokuxhumana futhi uthande okumbalwa kokuthunyelwe kwabo. Bhala amazwana anomusa kubo. Akufanele kube inkohliso. Kuwukuba ngamabomu.
Uma sithembekile, akunzima ukugxeka noma yini nanoma ubani. Kucishe kuzenzekele kithi. Kodwa kuthiwani uma sonke sikhetha ukuba ngcono kunalokho? Ukuze siveze okuhle kwabanye ezingxoxweni zethu, kufanele sifune okuhle kakhulu.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Icebo lesitha ukudala uqhekeko phakathi kwethu nabantu esibathanda kakhulu, icala elilodwa ngesikhathi. UkungaKhubeki kwuhlaka lwendlela uNkulunkulu angasebenzisa ngayo izinto ekuphileni ezisizwise ubuhlungu kakhulu, ukuze alolonge ukuzethemba kwethu futhi asisize sibe abantu ebesihlale sifuna ukuba yibona. Ukungacasuki akusho ukuthi ungalokothi ucasuke. Kumayelana nokungahlali ucasukile.
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