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"IZINDUKU NAMATSHE"
Izinduku namatshe kungase kwaphule amathambo ami, kodwa amazwi awasoze angilimaza.
Kungaba kuhle kangakanani uma leyo nkulumo ibiyiqiniso? Ngokuvamile kulula kakhulu ukupholisa ithambo eliphukile kunokupholisa isilonda esibangelwe into ethile eyashiwo othile esicasule kakhulu. Omunye wababulali abakhulu benjabulo yethu yicala. Icala elilodwa linamandla okonakalisa usuku lwakho lonke, isonto, inyanga, unyaka, ngisho nempilo yakho.
Ubaba wami wayeneminyaka engu-49 ubudala ngesikhathi ngizalwa. Ngakho-ke ngesikhathi ngidlala i-basketball esikoleni esiphakeme, ubaba wayeseneminyaka engu-60. Abantu engingabazi ngokuphelele babevame ukungibuza ukuthi ingabe indoda eyayingihalalisela ngokumangazayo emabhokisini kwakungumkhulu wami. Kuze kube namuhla, angisawakhumbuli amagama abo noma ubuso babo, kodwa engikukhumbulayo ngokucacile umuzwa wokukhubazeka ngokomzwelo futhi eqinisweni… ukucasulwa.
Kungakhathalekile iminyaka yethu, ingcebo, umsebenzi, isimo sobudlelwano, noma ukuvuthwa ngokomoya, akekho okhululiwe emaphutheni. Ingxenye yemvelo yethu yobuntu ilele ekufuneni abanye abantu bacabange kahle ngathi. Sifuna ukuthandwa abobulili obuhlukile. Sifuna abantu bacabange ukuthi sibukeka kahle, sicebile, futhi ekugcineni sijabule. Sifuna abantu bacabange ukuthi sinakho konke, siphila esimweni esiqhubekayo sempumelelo.
Sonke sibe nesikhashana lapho othile asho okuthile okusenze sazizwa singaziswa, singabalulekile, futhi singamekelekile.
Mhlawumbe bekuyinhlamba yobuhlanga. Mhlawumbe bekuyinkulumo yocansi. Mhlawumbe kube ukuphawula ku-Facebook. Mhlawumbe kukhethwe omunye umuntu phezu kwakho. Ngezinye izikhathi asicasulwa into ethile eshiwo noma eyenziwe kithi, kodwa ngenxa yalokho othile akushilo noma akwenzile kumuntu esimthandayo. Ngaphansi kwesambulela sokuba umngani omuhle, sizocasuka ngenxa yabanye abantu.
Kodwa kuthiwani uma ngingakutshela ukuthi ungaphila impilo lapho ungenacala?
Uyabonakala.
Awukho phezu komuntu.
Owesifazane Ophakemeyo.
Cha, uzokopha. Kodwa kuthiwani uma ngingakutshela ukuthi ubuhlungu bakho bungaba nenjongo? Kuthiwani uma ungezwa icala futhi wazi ukuthi kufanele wenzeni ngalo?
Iviki elilandelayo lempilo yakho lingaba lihle kakhulu ngoba kungaba yisonto odedela ngalo ukoniwa futhi wamukele inkululeko.
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