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Ayini Amaphethini Akho?
Ingabe uke wazinika isikhathi sokucabangA amaphethini akho emizwa? CabangA ngemicabango ephindaphindiwe eyenza imizwa ephindaphindayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela iveze izenzo ezijwayelekile. Ukuqonda lawo maphethini kuzodinga ukuvula amagumbi amnyama ezinhliziyo zethu futhi sihlukanise imicabango ebesicabanga ukuthi yagqitshwa. Kumelwe siqale ukuzibuza: Kungani lokhu kwenzeka kimi? Kungifundiseni? Nginga kuvimba kanjani ukuthi kungenzeki futhi?
Impela akuwona wonke amaphethini amabi. Amanye amaphethini alungile kangangokuthi kufanele acwengwe futhi agcinwe impilo yonke. Isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke ongazinika sona yikhono lokukhomba amaphethini adale izingqikithi empilweni yakho. Lawo maphethini angase angasuki ngokuphelele, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ungaqala ukuwabona futhi uwaphuce amandla anawo okulawula ukuphila kwakho.
Kudingeke ukuthi ngisebenze kanzima ukuze ngikhombe imizwa yami futhi ngiyiveze uma kunesidingo. Uma ubona ukushintsha kwemizwa yakho, thatha isikhashana uthathe uhlu lwangempela lwalokho okukuholele ekushintsheni. Ungamane ukwenze ukuthi ungekho esikhungweni. Thola umsuka walokho okuvimbile ekubeni nenjabulo ephelele. Ungamangala ukuthi ukuveza leyo mizwa kungakukhulula kangakanani.
Ingabe uyazikhumbula izindawo empilweni yakho lapho wezwa khona amahloni, ubuhlungu, noma ukuphoxeka? Ingabe zikhona izinkumbulo ezithile ezinamathele kulokho? Ushintshe kanjani umbono wakho ngawe nakwabanye ngenxa yalokho? Ukubona umsuka wephethini yakho ukuphela kwendlela ongayiqeda ngayo empilweni yakho. Uma usuqala ukubona amanye amaphethini angenampilo ahlotshaniswa nempilo yakho, kufanele uzivikele kuwo. Lokho kuzivikela kuyodingeka kuze ngendlela yokulwa naleyo micabango noma imizwelo ngomcabango ojwayelekilee onempilo.
Ukukhalela kuNkulunkulu kukhulula amandla obumnyama phezu kwempilo yakho. Kunezinkinga ezithile ezimpilweni zethu ezinkulu kakhulu ukuthi singazisingatha sodwa. Sidinga ukungenelela kwaphezulu ukuze kusikhumbuze ukuthi kukhona insiza esinayo edlula izithiyo ezisizungezile. Awulwi le mpi uwedwa. Unkulunkulu unecebo nentando ephelele ngempilo yakho. Themba icebo Lakhe, elihlanganisa injabulo, ukuthula, kanye nothando. Lokho ukucabanga okuguquguqukayo okunikeza ukukhanya ngisho nasemigodini emnyama kakhulu.
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Uma amazwi okungazethembi, ukungabaza, kanye nokwesaba engalungiswanga, azolawula ukuphila kwakho. Awukwazi ukuthulisa la mazwi noma ungawanaki. Kulolu hlelo lokufunda lwezinsuku ezi-3, u-Sarah Jakes Roberts ukukhombisa ukuthi ungaphikisana kanjani nemikhawulo yesikhathi sakho esidlule futhi wamukele ukungakhululeki ukuze ungavimbeki.
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