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Sichithe izinsuku ezimbalwa ezedlule sihlola umsuka nemiphumela yokuqhathanisa okunobuthi ezimpilweni zethu. Namuhla nakusasa ngifuna ukugxila ekutheni singasebenzisa kanjani amandla okuqhathanisa okunempilo ukuze sikwazi ukubulala ukuqhathanisa okunobuthi ezimpilweni zethu.
Ivesi lethu esigxile kulo liwubizo olubalulekile esenzweni, lithi kuMathewu 7:12:
“Ngakho-ke kukho konke enithanda ukuba abantu bakwenze kini yenzani kwabanye, ngokuba lokhu kuhlanganisa umthetho nabaprofethi.”
Lapho ukungazethembi kwethu kuqala, sizizwa sishiywe ngaphandle, singanakiwe, singaphansi, futhi sidangele. Kodwa, kuthiwani uma siphendule leyo mizwa ekhanda labo ukuze sizibophezele ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi abanye abazizwa ngaleyo ndlela ngenxa yezenzo zethu? Kuthiwani uma senza umzamo wamabomu wokufaka, ukugubha, ukukhuthaza, nokuqinisekisa abantu lapho sizizwa sishiywe dengwane, singanakwa, sidangele, futhi singafaneleki ngokwanele? Yilokhu ivesi lethu elisiholela ekubeni sikwenze ngoba ukubulala ukuqhathanisa kudinga ukuba kwabanye lokho esifisa ukuthi abanye babe yikho kithi.
Isibonelo. Ngithole i-imeyili engimemela embuthanweni wabagqugquzeli—abantu abathathwa njengabaholi emikhakheni eyahlukene yemizamo yabo (ibhizinisi, abezindaba, umculo, inkonzo, njll.). Ngihlonishwe ngokuthola isimemo, kodwa lapho ngibheka uhlu lwabamenyiwe... igama lami lalingekho kulo. Futhi ngokushesha ngezwa ukngazethembi kwami kuqala. Kwezwakala sengathi inhliziyo yami ihlabeke umxhwele lapho ngifunda amagama abantu engibathandayo, ngabona ukuthi angibalwanga nabo.
Kodwa esikhundleni sokuthi ngehlele ekuzideleleni, lelivesi laqala ukuzwakala emoyeni wami njengoba ngizwa iNkosi ithi, "Nona, kungenzeka ukuthi awukho ohlwini kodwa usenhliziyweni yomphathi." Ngaphinde ngalubuyekeza uhlu futhi ngabona inqwaba yabanye abantu abanethonya bengekho, ngakho ngabuza umninikhaya ukuthi ngingabamema yini, wathi, "impela!" Ngafinyelela kubantu ababelahlekile ngabamema, ukuze nabo bajabulele umbuthano, futhi njengoba kwenzeka, ngagcina ngingakwazanga ukuya ngenxa yokungqubuzana!
uNkulunkulu wasebenzisa leso simo ukuze aphulukise inhliziyo yami futhi angisize ngithole inkululeko yokuphila okungaphezu kokuqhathanisa okunobuthi. Esikhundleni sokugxila ekungafakweni ohlwini, ukufaka abantu ohlwini ngokuqaphela ukuthi ubani omunye owayeshoda kwanginika amandla ngoba ngangiphatha abanye ngendlela engangifuna ukuphathwa ngayo. Futhi ukubulala ukuqhathanisa kudinga ukuphatha abantu ngendlela ongathanda ukuphathwa ngayo.
Ubaliwe. Uyaziswa. Uyafaneleka.
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Ngalolu hlelo lweBhayibheli lwezinsuku ezingu-5, Ukubulala Ukuqhathanisa, umbhali uNona Jones unikeza ukuqonda okusebenzayo nesikhuthazo sasemhlabeni ukuze akusize ugweme ukuphelelwa ithemba ngokuqhathanisa futhi uphishekele ukuphila okukhululekile, okujabulisayo—ukuphila ukuzethemba kokuthi uNkulunkulu akwenze waba yikho.. Oda incwadi ephelele ethi Ukubulala Ukuqhathanisa ukuze uqhubekele phambili ohambweni lwakho lwenkululeko.
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