Kuyahlo(bana): Ukwenza Ubudlelwano BusebenzeIsampula

Relat(able): Making Relationships Work

USUKU 7 KWEZINGU- 7

Ukushiya Ubulungiswa KuNkulunkulu

Kukhona ukushuba kwesimo uma kukhulunywa ngokuxolela abanye abakonile. Kwezinye izimo, omunye umuntu ngeke akufune ukuthula. Kunalokho, bazophakamisa ukungqubuzana... futhi uma kungekho ukungqubuzana, bazozama ukukudala. Kwabanye ungase uthi, “Lowo muntu akakudingi ukubuyisana. Lowo muntu udinga ubulungiswa ngendlela yesigwebo sasejele.”

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umusa kaNkulunkulu kanye nenqubo yokubuyisana ayihoxisi inqubo yobulungiswa. Ivele yabele kabusha ubulungiswa. Uma uthethelela, uyayeka ekubeni umxazululi kanye nomenzi wobulungiswa kulowo muntu. Ukhetha ukwabela uNkulunkulu leyo ndima.

Ungafuna ukuthula, futhi uma kunesidingo ufune ubulungiswa, kodwa umphumela ushiye ezandleni zikaNkulunkulu. Ugxila  ekuthuleni, hhayi ekwenzeni umuntu akhokhe ngokulinyazwa kwakhe kuwe. Uyenqaba ukuvumela ukufuna ukubuyisela kube umsebenzi wakho empilweni.

Manje, ukuba yinxusa lokuthula akusho ukuthi ukhetha ukungaboni ingozi. Uma wena kanye/noma umndeni wakho nisengozini yothile, inhloso yakho wukuzifaka wena kanye nabo endaweni ephephile. Kobunye ubudlelwano, kungase kudingeke ulungise izinto ezithile, ubeke imingcele ethile, futhi ubeke ibanga elithile. Kodwa endaweni yokuzivikela, usengaphila nesimo sengqondo esithi, “Kufanele ngisuke kuwe njengamanje, kodwa ngifuna ukuzama, ngamandla kaNkulunkulu, ukuphila ngokuthula nawe enhliziyweni yami. Uma kungenzeka ukuba ngenze lokho nawe, yilokho engizokufuna. Kodwa uma kungenzeka ukuba ngikwenze lokho kude nawe, yilokho engizokufuna."

Khumbula njalo ukuthi uMoya oNgcwele uyisithunywa sokuthula. Uphilisa umoya wakho. Futhi lapho umoya wakho usuphila, uKristu uhlala kuwe futhi ube nempilo entsha sha! Manje niphila ngamandla kaMoya, hhayi ngemvelo yenu yesono. Izithelo zikaMoya zihlanganisa uthando, injabulo nokuthula, ukubekezela, ubuhle, nokuzithiba—futhi lezi yizo zonke izinto ozidingayo ukuze ubuyisane. Lezi yizipho ozidingayo ebudlelwaneni lapho kunenzondo yangempela, ubutha, ukucasuka, ubuhlungu, namanxeba amakhulu.

Ungancika emandleni kaMoya njengoba uhamba ngoMoya futhi uphila ngokuthula hhayi ukulwa. Ngayiphi injongo? Ukuze uJesu akhazinyuliswe futhi ukuze izimpilo zabantu abaningi ziguqulwe. Amathuba okuthula uNkulunkulu awadala kuwe athinta abantu ezinhlangothini zombili zokubuyisana—ngaphezu kwakho siqu kanye nomuntu ofuna ukubuyisana. Lapho ufuna ukuthula futhi ushiye ukufuna ubulungiswa kuNkulunkulu, uletha abantu—mhlawumbe ngisho nezizwe—kuKristu.

Phendula

Kukuphi ebudlelwaneni lapho obona sengathi udinga ubulungiswa? Iyini indima yakho ekufuneni ukuthula nalabo bantu? Yimiphi imingcele oyidingayo ukuze uzivikele?

Kukuphi lapho udinga ukufuna ukuthula enhliziyweni yakho phezu kobuhlungu bobudlelwane? Ungakuthola kanjani ukuthula ngisho noma lobo buhlobo bungalungiseki?

Isibonelo sakho sokufuna ukuthula ebudlelwaneni obunzima singabathinta kanjani abantu abasempilweni yakho? Amandla kaMoya oNgcwele empilweni yakho angabadonsela kanjani abanye ekukholweni kuJesu?

Usuku 6

Mayelana naloluHlelo

Relat(able): Making Relationships Work

Lolu hlelo lokufunda luhlanganisa ukuzinikela ekufundeni okuyisikhombisa kwansuku zonke okusekelwe kuhlelo lwezifundo luka-Louie Giglio olu(hlobene): Ukwenza Ubudlelwano busebenze. Lolu cwaningo luzohlola ukuthi yini eyenza sihlobane nabanye, ukuthi uNkulunkulu angakuletha kanjani ukuthula phakathi kwezingxabano, nokuthi singasiza kanjani ekubuyiseleni ubudlelwano obubonakala bubhidlikile bungenakulungiseka.

More

Sithanda ukubonga uLouie Giglio futhi noHarper Collins ngokusinikeza lolu hlelo. Ngeminye imininingwane, sicela uvakashele: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/relatable