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Unkulunkulu Ongabizwa ngoBaba

Ngaphandle kobudlelwane bakho noNkulunkulu kanye nawe, ubudlelwano bakho nomama wakho kanye nobaba wakho yibo obulandelayo obubaluleke kakhulu. Lobu ubudlelwano obakhayo empilweni yakho. Ikhono lakho lokusebenzelana nabanye—kanye nohlobo lomuntu oye waba yilo—ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni onabo nomama nobaba wakho.

Ubudlelwano bakho nobaba wakho bubucayi kakhulu. Kunezinhlobo eziningi ezahlukene zobaba. Ezinye ziyamangalisa futhi zinikeza amandla. Bakhipha uthando futhi bayangana ngokukhululeka. Futhi abanye obaba. . . azizona. Mhlawumbe ubunobaba obengekho—ngenxa yokushona, noma isehlukaniso, noma izikhathi zomsebenzi, noma ibanga elingokomzwelo. Mhlawumbe ubunobaba ohlukumezayo owaletha umonakalo endabeni yakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi ulwa nomuzwa wakho wendawo emhlabeni, futhi okuningi kwakho kungase kusekelwe ohlotsheni lukababa owakukhulisa. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubaba wakho usekhona empilweni yakho, okuhle noma okubi.

Isitha siyazi ukuthi uNkulunkulu unguBaba osezulwini ophelele. Uyayazi nendlela oyobheka ngayo uNkulunkulu njengoBaba iyothonywa indlela obheka ngayo uyihlo wasemhlabeni. Ngakho, uma engaphazamisa lobo buhlobo noyihlo wasemhlabeni, angakuvimbela ekuqondeni ngokugcwele ukuthi ungubani uNkulunkulu nokuthi ungaphila kanjani ebuhlotsheni naye. Isitha siphumelele impela kulokhu.

Kubantu abaningi, ukuzama ukuqonda uNkulunkulu njengoYise, ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo noyise wasemhlabeni, kufana nokubuka ingilazi edabukile. Ubuhlobo babo noyise wasemhlabeni buphukile, ngakho ukubonakaliswa kwabo kukaNkulunkulu njengoBaba kuphukile nakho. Ubudlelwano babo basemhlabeni nosezulwini budinga uguquko ukuze baphumelele.

Siyabonga, ivangeli linamandla ngokwanele ukuletha ukuphulukiswa kubo bonke ubudlelwano, noma ngabe bubole kangakanani. Ngevangeli, sithola ubuwena obusha lapho sazi uJesu. Asikholelwa nje kokuthile, siba othile—indodana noma indodakazi ethandekayo kaNkulunkulu. Kuwukwakhiwa komndeni lapho uNkulunkulu uSomandla eba uYihlo futhi kuzalwa ubuhlobo obusha. Unkulunkulu akayena umfanekiso kayihlo wasemhlabeni; uwukuphelela kukababa wakho wasemhlabeni—inguqulo oyilangazelelayo ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakho.

Ujesu wafa esiphambanweni ukuze wena uxhunyelelwe endabeni entsha noBaba omusha kanye nethuba elisha nekusasa elisha. Akudingekile ukuba wesabe ukucabanga ngoNkulunkulu njengobaba. Akumele uhlale ekushoda kobudlelwane bakho nobaba wakho wasemhlabeni. Ungancika kulokhu okusha futhi ubone uNkulunkulu njengoBaba ophelele.

Ukuncika kulobu budlelwano bevangeli noNkulunkulu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ubonise uthando lwakhe kubazali bakho, ngisho noma bengebona ukubonakaliswa kothando lukaNkulunkulu kuwe. Njengoba wenza lokhu, uyobahlonipha ngezindlela zokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu—ngisho nalapho bengahloniphekile—futhi ukuphulukiswa kuyoqala. Uma abanye bekubona ubuyisana ngale ndlela, bazofuna ukwazi ukuthi wenza kanjani. Bayobona umfanekiso kaJesu kuwe futhi bafune ukwazi ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka kanjani ezimpilweni zabo.

Phendula

Chaza ubuhlobo bakho noyihlo wasemhlabeni usemncane. Lobu budlelwane bube nomthelela kanjani ekuqondeni kwakho uNkulunkulu njengoYihlo osezulwini?

Ububone ngaziphi izindlela ubudlelwano bakho nomunye wabazali bakho noma bobabili buthinta ubudlelwano bakho nabanye? Ingabe le mithelela yayimihle noma yayimibi?

Kusho ukuthini kuwe ukuhlonipha uyihlo nonyoko? Ubuhlobo obubuyiselwe nabazali bakho bungabadonsela kanjani abanye kuNkulunkulu? Ingawabonisa kanjani amandla kaNkulunkulu kwabanye?

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Relat(able): Making Relationships Work

Lolu hlelo lokufunda luhlanganisa ukuzinikela ekufundeni okuyisikhombisa kwansuku zonke okusekelwe kuhlelo lwezifundo luka-Louie Giglio olu(hlobene): Ukwenza Ubudlelwano busebenze. Lolu cwaningo luzohlola ukuthi yini eyenza sihlobane nabanye, ukuthi uNkulunkulu angakuletha kanjani ukuthula phakathi kwezingxabano, nokuthi singasiza kanjani ekubuyiseleni ubudlelwano obubonakala bubhidlikile bungenakulungiseka.

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Sithanda ukubonga uLouie Giglio futhi noHarper Collins ngokusinikeza lolu hlelo. Ngeminye imininingwane, sicela uvakashele: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/relatable