Thola i AppKuyahlo(bana): Ukwenza Ubudlelwano BusebenzeIsampula
Ukuxhawula Ngokuthula
Ingabe bukhona ubudlelwane empilweni yakho obuye banqanyulwa ngandlela thize noma babhidlika? Ingabe likhona igebe ebudlelwaneni onomuzwa wokuthi alilungiseki? Namuhla, ngifuna ucabange mayelana nokubuyisana, ukubuyiselwa, kanye nesixazululo kulobo budlelwano.
Uma ungokaJesu, inhloso nohlelo lukaNkulunkulu ukuthi uthole indlela yokuphila ngokuthula nawo wonke umuntu. Ungase ucabange ukuthi lokhu akunakwenzeka, kodwa khumbula ukuthi kuNkulunkulu zonke izinto zingenzeka. Ngesiphambano uNkulunkulu wenza ukuthula nawe. Kwakungadingeki ukuba enze lokhu—akazange asatshiswe nguwe noma adinge okuthile kuwe. Ubefuna ubudlelwane nawe.
Ngakho, isiphambano siyisifanekiso sokubuyisana ebudlelwaneni bakho. Futhi into ebaluleke kakhulu kulokho kubuyisana ivangeli. Ujesu wanqoba okubi ngokuhle, futhi ucela ukuba wenze okufanayo ngokuthanda izitha zakho. Kodwa-ke, uma kuzoba nokubuyisana empilweni yakho, kuzomele uthathe imbazo yomusa ugawule umuthi wokufutheka nokucasuka. Kuzodingeka ucele uNkulunkulu ukuba enze leso simo nomunye umuntu sibe indaba ebonisa isihe sakhe.
Manje, ukwenza lokhu kuzodinga amandla angaphezu kwawemvelo. Phela, akukhona okwemvelo ukuthethelela abanye abakonile. Kodwa njengomlandeli kaJesu ungakubona lokhu ukuthi kungenzeka kube nokuthula, ngoba uyazi ukuthi uma uNkulunkulu engenza ukuthula nawe, angenza ukuthula nanoma ubani.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi ukuthula kuzokwenzeka njalo-kodwa kuncike kuwe ukunikeza ithuba. UmBhalo uthi “ngokusemandleni akho,” ngoba nguwe onamandla angaphezu kwawemvelo kaJesu empilweni yakho. Ngakho-ke kukuwe ukuthi uhambe ngokusemandleni akho ukufuna ukuthula.
Uma ufuna ukugqama ngempela empilweni futhi ube umenzi wokuthula, kuzofanele uhambe imayela lesibili. Kuzodingeka wenqabe ukuvumela amaphethini alimazayo ukuthi amiswe kabusha empilweni yakho. Kufanele ube ngumnikazi wengxenye yakho ekulimaleni futhi uyeke isidingo sokuphindisela noma ukugcina irekhodi lokungalungile. Kungase kudingeke ukuthi uqede ubudlelwano ngokuthula ukuze uphile ngokukhululeka ezintweni ezingenampilo ezehlise ubudlelwano.
NguMoya oNgcwele ongaphakathi kuwe owenza lenqubo yokubuyisana yenzeke ebuhlotsheni obubhidlikile. Wona loMoya kaNkulunkulu owazala iNdodana kaNkulunkulu, iNkosi yokuthula, ungazala inqubo yokuthula phakathi kwakho nomuntu ofuna ukubuyisana naye. Umkhuleko wakho udinga ukuthi, “Nkulunkulu, ngifuna ukuthi ukhazinyuliswe kulokhu ngaphezu kwalokho engifuna kulunge. Ngifuna lobu budlelwane bubuyiselwe—kodwa uMoya kaNkulunkulu, kuzomele ukwenze kimi lokhu.” Khona-ke ungakwazi ukuhoxa ekuziphindiseleni, uqede imizamo yakho yokuziphindiselela, bese uhamba sisuswe sonke isisindo emahlombe akho. Ngoba kuye ngokuthi besincike kuwe, wakhetha ukuphila ngokuthula nabanye—kungakhathaleki ukuthi basabela kanjani.
Phendula
Uke wasabela kanjani esikhathini esedlule ebudlelwaneni obubhidlikile? Ubudlelwane bakho noNkulunkulu bunamthelela muni endleleni ophatha ngayo ubuhlungu ebudlelwaneni?
Imuphi umqondo odingekayo ukuze uphile ngokuthula nabanye? Iyiphi indima kaNkulunkulu ekufezeni ubulungiswa ekwenzeni okubi? Iyiphi ingxenye yale nqubo enzima kakhulu kuwe?
Ungakunikeza kanjani ukuthula nentethelelo ngaphandle kokuvumela ukuziphatha okulimazayo? Wazi kanjani uma ukubuyisana kungenzeki?
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Lolu hlelo lokufunda luhlanganisa ukuzinikela ekufundeni okuyisikhombisa kwansuku zonke okusekelwe kuhlelo lwezifundo luka-Louie Giglio olu(hlobene): Ukwenza Ubudlelwano busebenze. Lolu cwaningo luzohlola ukuthi yini eyenza sihlobane nabanye, ukuthi uNkulunkulu angakuletha kanjani ukuthula phakathi kwezingxabano, nokuthi singasiza kanjani ekubuyiseleni ubudlelwano obubonakala bubhidlikile bungenakulungiseka.
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