Ukukhula OthandweniIsampula

Uthando olukhulayo lugxile kwabanye. Angikwazi ukukuthanda ngempela uma ngihlala ngigxile ku-ajenda yami, ukugunyazwa kwami, isifiso sami sokudla, noma impumelelo yami elandelayo. Ngakho ukuze sithandane ngempela, kuyodingeka sihlale siwaphaphamele amaqhinga esitha asigcina sigxile ekugxileni kwethu.

Ngikholwa ukuthi ukuphazamisa kuyisikhali esiyinhloko yesitha sethu somoya. Yini isitha sethu esifuna ukusiphazamisa kukho? Impendulo iyinoma yini ebalulekile kuNkulunkulu. Isibonelo:

• Ukuhlanganyela ivangeli (umsebenzi kaNkulunkulu wokusindisa)
• Ukuxhumana okuseduze noNkulunkulu
• Ukuthandana

Eqinisweni, uma isitha singasiphazamisa kulokhu okubalulekile isikhathi eside ngokwanele, siyazi ukuthi kuzophumela ekuhlukaneni, ukuhlukaniswa, kanye nokubhujiswa.

Okokuqala, ake sichaze ukuphazamiseka. Ekugcineni, yinoma yini edonsela ukunaka kwethu noma ingqondo kwenye into. Nasi isibonelo esivamile sokuthi ukuphazamiseka kungase kubukeke kanjani: Unesikhathi esithile sokubulala ngesikhathi ulindele isikhathi esimisiwe, futhi esikhundleni sokucela ukwaziswa kuNkulunkulu othile ongamfonela noma umthandazele, uvumela isikhathi sakho samahhala sichitheke ngoba ukunaka kudonswa ezindabeni zakamuva, isaziso socingo, okuthunyelwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, noma olunye uhlobo lokuzijabulisa okuhlukanisiwe.

Ngike ngaba lapho, ngenze lokho! Kungumkhuba okulula ukungena kuwo ngoba konke kutholakala ezandleni zethu.

Kodwa angifuni ukuphila ngiphazamisekile. Angifuni ukuwela esimweni esikhona. Angifuni ukudebeselela ukubona umuntu ophambi kwami. Ngifuna ukuthanda njengoJesu!

Asivuke siqonde ukuthi siyadingana ngempela. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lufakazela ukuthi imiphakathi enobudlelwano enempilo iyilungele inhlalakahle yethu engokomzimba, engokomzwelo, neyengqondo.

Nquma namuhla ukudala ukuxhumana okunenhloso okwengeziwe nokusebenzisana okungaguquki. Nquma ukuba umthombo wesikhuthazo nsuku zonke kuwo wonke umuntu ohlangana naye. Nquma ukuphila ukuphila okubonisa uthando lukaNkulunkulu futhi uhlale ugxile emsebenzini wethu woMbuso.

Umyeni wami, u-Craig, uyangikhuthaza uma kuza ekuphileni impilo egxile kwabanye. Ngibhale lapha ukuthi ngimbona kanjani bukhoma. Ngethemba ukuthi kuzokukhuthaza nawe:

• Uhlale efona ebheka ukuthi kukhona olimalayo.
• Uthembekile ekukhulekeleni abantu.
• Uzinika isikhathi sokufundisa noma ukulalela ngesineke.
• Wenza noma yini okudingeka yenziwe—kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izindleko zomuntu siqu zingakanani.
• Ubeka phambili mina nomndeni wethu.
• Uyavuma futhi axolise lapho enze iphutha.
• Uhlela izindlela zokuphana.
• Uhlala ezwakalisa ukwazisa nokubonga.
• Uzibeka ekugcineni.
• Uhlala ekhuthaza umuntu ngemininingwane ethile.
• Ukhumbula futhi uvuma usuku olubalulekile lokulahlekelwa komuntu.
• Ubuza imibuzo ehehayo esikhundleni sokukhuluma ngaye.
• Uhlala ehlukaniselana ukudla epuletini lakhe!

Impilo kaCraig ibonisa isithelo esivuthiwe, esimnandi sikaMoya oNgcwele. Lezi zenzo ezibonakala zincane kodwa ezithembekile zothando lokuzidela aziguquki ngoba ukhetha njalo ukwamukela impilo kaMoya ngaphakathi kuye. Nsuku zonke, sinethuba lokwenza okufanayo, ngakho-ke zinike isikhathi sokucabangela noma yiziphi izindlela ongase ugxile kuzo abanye.

Thandaza: Baba, vula izinhliziyo namehlo ethu ukuthi singaphila kanjani impilo egxile kuNkulunkulu, egxile kwabanye. Sisize ngokukhethekile ukuba sihlale sinake labo abaseduze kakhulu nathi. Kwangathi singabathanda ngempela futhi sibazise abantu ngezenzo nangamazwi ethu. Egameni likaJesu, ameni.