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Uthando Olukhulayo Ludinga Ukuqondanisa Komphefumulo
Ukuze sithande kahle, sidinga izisusa eziqotho, ezimsulwa. Ngakho-ke, uthando olukhulayo ludinga ukuzazi okunempilo.
Ingabe uthando lwakho luqotho—alunakho ukuzenzisa noma ukuzigabisa? Ungazi kanjani? Thatha isikhathi sokuqondanisa umphefumulo. Ake ngichaze.
Ngezinye izikhathi ngidinga ukuya kudokotela we-chiropractor ukuze ngilungise umgogodla wami. Ngokungenakugwenywa, uDkt. Lisa uhlala ethola okuthile okushintshile ekuhleleni—ngakho-ke uyakuhlwitha, aqhekeze, futhi akubuyisele endaweni. Lezi zilungiso zizuzisa umzimba wami wenyama ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene.
Ngosuku lokuqala lwalolu Hlelo LweBhayibheli, sabona ukuthi sidinga ngempela usizo lukaNkulunkulu uma kuziwa ekuthandeni Yena kanye nabanye ngokugcwele. Futhi enye yezinzuzo zokubheka nokuncika kuNkulunkulu nsuku zonke ukuthi ngokuvamile uyokwembula okuthile okuqondile okudinga ukulungiswa—noma ukulungiswa komphefumulo.
Kwesinye isikhathi, uNkulunkulu uyangikhombisa ukuthi ngikhulisa ngenxa yemizwa esekelwe ukwesaba esikhundleni sothando lwangempela, futhi ngidinga ukukunikela Kuye. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngiye ngacasuka, futhi uMoya oNgcwele uyangikhombisa lapho kunokuziqhenya khona ukuze ngiphenduke futhi ngithethelele ukunikeza. Izikhathi eziningi, ngiye ngathembela kimina futhi ngafuna ngenkani ukuletha ezami izixazululo esimweni emzamweni wami wokusiza ngothando.
Ngingaqhubeka, kodwa engithemba ukuthi uyakuqonda ukuthi asikwazi ukuthanda abanye ngobuqotho kuze kube yilapho sizivulela ukuqondiswa futhi ngokuzithoba sizibeka phansi phambi kukaMoya oNgcwele.
Angikwazi ukuthanda ukwesaba, ukucasulwa, ukuzicabangela mina kuphela, noma inkani. Futhi nawe awukwazi. Vumela lokho kungene phakathi.
Inkinga ukuthi okuningi esikwenzayo mina nawe kungase kube ukubonakala kokulunga. Kuhle ngempela ekuzikhonzeni, ukuzenza abalungile, futhi sizithethelele. Kodwa uthando lujula kakhulu kunalokho okuhlanganayo.
Into enhle ayihlali iyinto enothando. Uma kuziwa othandweni lwangempela, izisusa zibaluleke kakhulu.
Yingakho sidinga ukuya kuNkulunkulu ngezinhliziyo ezithambile nethobekile ukuze sigweme noma yikuphi ukuzikhohlisa. Njengokuya kudokotela we-chiropractor, ukuchitha isikhathi ngenhloso noNkulunkulu ngomthandazo kuzosilethela ukuzazi okudingwa yimiphefumulo yethu.
Ngakho-ke namuhla, chitha isikhathi uzibuza: Yini ebengiyenza ebonakala ilungile, kodwa engenazo izisusa ezifanele?
Thandaza: Cela uNkulunkulu ukuthi akubonise uma kunezisusa ezingamanga okudingeka uzibeke phansi ukuze uthande ngobuqotho obuphelele.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Okubaluleke ngempela ukuthanda uNkulunkulu nokuthanda abanye, kodwa sikwenza kanjani lokho ngokuphumelelayo? Iqiniso liwukuthi, asikwazi ukuthanda abantu kahle ngamandla ethu. Kodwa uma sibheka kuNkulunkulu futhi sizibeka phansi ngokuzithoba, singaphila othandweni lukaNkulunkulu lweqiniso nolunamandla. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokukhula othandweni kulolu hlelo lweBhayibheli lwezinsuku ezingu-5 oluvela kuMfundisi u-Amy Groeschel.
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