Owesifazane Obalulekile: Ukunqoba Ukucindezeleka Isampula

Thathwa Yisimangaliso Sanamuhla 

Uke waqaphela ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bahlale bejahile? Siphuthuma ukuqeqesha izingane zethu ngamabhodwe, bese siziphuthumisa ezinkulisa ukuze sibe nesikhathi esithe xaxa sokuphumula. Nokho, lapho ekugcineni behamba ekhaya, silangazelela izinsuku ababevame ukusanga ngezandla zabo ezincane entanyeni. Khona-ke, sifisa sengathi ngabe asizange sisheshe kuleyo minyaka.

Noma, siphuthuma esitolo segrosa ntambama ngoba kusafanele sifike esitolo sezidakamizwa, indawo yokuzivocavoca, nendawo yokuhlanza izingubo ngaphambi kuka-5:00 p.m. Nokho, ekuphuthumeni kwethu ukuhlola izinto ohlwini lwethu lwezinto esizozenza, siyalikhumbula ikhehla elisebenza emnyangweni wemikhiqizo elidinga izwi lesikhuthazo, futhi asikaze sicabange ngisho nokucabanga ukusiza umama osemncane kulayini wokukhokha nezingane ezintathu ezisencane kanye nezingane ezintathu. igrosa egcwele inqola.

Ukushesha sekuphenduke indlela yethu eluthayo empilweni.

Iqiniso eliwubukhazikhazi nelingephikwe yileli: namuhla usuku oluhle kakhulu lwempilo yakho! Asikho isipho esigcwele noma esikhulu ukwedlula isiphiwo esingasifanele samanje. Namuhla yisikhathi sezimangaliso. Isikhathi samanje siphethe isiqiniseko sokunotha okukhulu kanye nesiqiniseko sobukhona obuhle kakhulu ukuba bube yiqiniso! Thanda ukuphila namuhla!

Njengowesifazane obalulekile, owenziwe ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu, ngiyakwazi ukukhetha ukuthi kungakanani ubukhazikhazi engizobukhipha namuhla. Ingabe ngizodlula emaminithini angavamile futhi ngibuke ngokufiphele kukho konke engikunikwe kona? Noma, ngizozamukela izimangaliso ezijwayelekile ezembula amakhanda abo athandekayo ngaso sonke isikhathi?

Uma ukugxila kwethu kugxile emathubeni akude akusasa, asisoze sakhangwa isimangaliso samanje! Kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi ukucindezeleka kanye nokuhambisana nakho, ukukhathala, amasela angabonakali azodla injabulo nokuthula kusukela osukwini olumangalisayo!

Abesifazane kuzo zonke izikhathi zokuphila kumele bahlale bekhumbula ukuthi ukukhetha abakwenzayo manje kunquma injabulo nothando abazoluthola kukho konke ekusaseni labo. Ukutshalwa kwezimali kokuzibandakanya kwenhliziyo yonke okwamanje kuzoletha ingcebo yezinsiza kusasa. Nokho, kufanele kugxilwe ekuphileni kahle namuhla.

Noma nini lapho ngilwa nenunu yengcindezi, ngiye ngakuthola kukhuthaza ukugcina lezi zimemezelo ziseduze. Ngikhetha ukubeka eceleni uhlu lwami lwezinto engizozenza futhi ngizinike isikhathi sokuzikhumbuza—ngokuzwakalayo—ngezinto ezibalulekile ezihamba phambili kimina:

“Namuhla, ngizobuyela ekhaya ngobumnandi balolu suku futhi ngithole ukuloba kweminwe kaNkulunkulu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngizolalela ukushaya kwenhliziyo Yakhe kanye nengoma yokuphila evela ezulwini kuphela.”

“Namuhla, ngizozixhumanisa nemanje… futhi ngikhangwe isipho sanamuhla!”