Owesifazane Obalulekile: Ukunqoba Ukucindezeleka Isampula

A Woman Of Significance: Overcoming Stress

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Abesifazane bekhulunyaka lamashumi amabili nanye kulindeleke ukuthi benze inqwaba yezinto, futhi ngenxa yalokho, bacindezelekile, bakhathele, basebenza ngokweqile, futhi banabasebenzi abancane! Ngokocwaningo lukaBarna, amaphesenti angu-72 abo bonke abesifazane azizwa ecindezelekile, futhi kwabesifazane abasenezingane ekhaya, leli zinga likhuphuka libe ngamaphesenti angu-80. Ngaphezu kokusebenza okungapheli], kunenselelo enkulu yokunquma ukuthi singakanani isikhathi namandla okufanele kunikezwe endaweni ngayinye yokuphila.

Ukucindezeleka kunendlela yokunqwabelana empilweni yowesifazane kuze kube yilapho engakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezisezingeni eliphezulu, ukungena engxoxweni ezuzisayo, noma ukujabulela impilo ayinikiwe.

Sinesitha esifuna ukusizakala ngengcindezi esibhekana nazo. Umgomo wesitha sethu esingokomoya uwukusenza sibe sesimweni sokukhathala nokudangala nsuku zonke zokuphila kwethu. Isitha siyazi ukuthi uma singasigcina siphazanyiswe ukucindezeleka, singantshontsha “inala” ekuphileni kwethu. Ukucindezeleka kuyosiphuca injabulo yethu, kuqede ukuthula kwethu, futhi kusiphuce ithemba. Ingcindezi ayinawo amandla okushintsha ikusasa, kodwa iyamosha namuhla!

Udeveli uyingcweti yobuqili nokuphazamisa. Ngokuvamile akakulingi ngokuvumelana okusobala, kodwa isu lakhe elikhohlisayo liwukunikeza izinto ezibonakala zizinhle. sSathane uzosebenzisa okuthile okubonakala kukuhle okwesikhashana ukukubizela kude nokuhle kukaNkulunkulu kwaphakade kwempilo yakho.

Awudalelwanga ukuba ube ngowesifazane okhathazekile okuphila kwakhe kuhlakazwa ngenxa ye-altare lokubamatasa. Udalelwe injabulo, ukuthula, kanye nomthelela waphakade, hhayi iziphazamiso zesikhashana. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokuba wenze izinguquko ozidinga kakhulu ekuphileni kwakho.

nNkulunkulu unekhambi lokukhungatheka. Uhlele imfihlo “yokuhlala” kuye ukuphilisa umphefumulo wakho okhathele nokhungathekile. Okuphambene komoya kokukhathala nengcindezi kungachazwa njengokubuyisela ubulula bokuhlala kuKristu. Amandla ngaso sonke isikhathi avela ekuphumuleni—hhayi emisebenzini engadingekile, yaphakade.

Lapho indawo yakho yokuhlala unomphela iwukuba khona kukaKristu, futhi lapho umvumela ukuba akuhlebele endlebeni yakho uhlelo Lwakhe olumangalisayo losuku ngalunye nehora ngalinye, ngisho nezikhathi ezithile zosuku lwakho, khona-ke isithelo Sakhe esikhazimulayo siyoba sihle futhi kubonakale kumnandi empilweni yakho eyanele. Kufanele sithole izikhathi ezithule ezimpilweni zethu ezinomsindo ukuze siqale ukuzwa iphimbo elipholile nelincane likaBaba.

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A Woman Of Significance: Overcoming Stress

Ukucindezeleka kunendlela yokunqwabelana ekuphileni kowesifazane kuze kube yilapho engakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezisezingeni eliphezulu, ukungena engxoxweni ezuzisayo, noma ukujabulela lokho akunikiwe. Awudalelwanga ukuba ngowesifazane okhathazekile okuphila kwakhe kufiphele ngenxa yokuxakeka. Ungowesifazane obalulekile, odalelwe injabulo, ukuthula, nomthelela waphakade!

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