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Ukuhlakanipha komuntu kuveza ukubekezela; kuyinkazimulo yakhe ukungakunaki ukoniwa. Izaga 19:11
Ugogo osekhulile waya esidlweni sasemini nomzukulu wakhe obesezoshada. Umzukulu wayehlale ewuthanda umshado kagogo nomkhulu wakhe. Wayefuna ukuhlala eshadile isikhathi esingaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amahlanu njengoba nje benza. Ngakho-ke, uthathe leli thuba ukucosha ukuhlakanipha okuthile kugogo wakhe mayelana nendlela yokugcina umshado uqinile.
"Gogo," ebuza. “Wenzeni ukuze ube nomshado omude futhi owenelisayo?”
"Hawu kulula," kuphendula ugogo wakhe ngaphandle kokungabaza. "Ngesikhathi ngishada nginqume ukubhala uhlu lwamaphutha kagogo wakho ayishumi okuthi, ngenxa yomshado wethu, ngikhethe ukungawanaki."
"Wenzile?" umakoti ozoshada maduze ubuze. “Yimiphi eminye yayo?” uqhubeke, efuna isibonelo esizomsiza ukuthi azikhethele.
"Angazi," kuphendula ugogo wakhe. “Empeleni angikaze ngibabhale. Kodwa noma nini lapho uBabamkhulu enza okuthile okungenza ngithukuthele, ngangimane ngithi enhliziyweni yami, ‘Unenhlanhla ngaye lowo ungomunye wabayishumi.’
Uma ushadile, uyazi manje ukuthi awuzange ushade nomuntu ophelele. Wonke umuntu unamaphutha, ubuthakathaka ngisho nokungajwayelekile. Imvamisa, lezi azivezi kuze kube semva kokuthi wena uthi "ngiyakwenza." Kepha ukuhlala nomuntu 24/7 kwembula okuningi. Ngeshwa, ukuthola amaphutha kungenye yezinto ezibuhlungu kakhulu ezenzeka emshadweni. Ngokuyinhloko ngoba kunamaphutha amaningi atholakala, ezinhlangothini zombili.
Kepha uNkulunkulu usiyala ngokuthi siwugcine kanjani umoya wothando nobunye emshadweni wethu lapho esitshela kwiZaga ukuthi kungokwethu udumo ukunganaki iphutha lomunye. Enye indlela yokwenza lokhu ukuqala ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokunikeza inzuzo yokungabaza. Esikhundleni sokugxumela eziphethweni noma ekwenziweni kokuxhamazela ngamaphutha owakwakho, amaphutha noma izici ezithile, thatha okuhamba phambili kuqala. Makube yisisekelo semibuzo yakho njengoba ufuna ukuqonda isimo obhekene naso. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma kunephutha ngempela ekudlaleni (okuzoba khona ngezikhathi ezithile), kungakunaki. Iyeke idlule. Kuyeke kuhambe. Hhayi ngoba sisho njalo kodwa ngoba uNkulunkulu.
Sondelana emshadweni wakho ngamandla omthandazo encwadini ewusizo "Imithandazo Yesibusiso Emshadweni Wami", kulesi sixhumanisi.
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