Owesifazane weZaga: Ukuhlakanipha, Izimiso, noMangalisayoIsampula
UTHINI?
Intombazane yeZaga ayishintshashintshi futhi yenqaba ukwehluleka.
QAPHELA: Enye yezinselelo zami ezinkulu kwaba ukuqala okuthile ngingakuqedi. Minyaka yonke kwakuzoba “UNYAKA” wokuba ngibe sesimweni esihle futhi nginciphe, NGINGASE ngidle inyama, noma ngidlale isiginci sami imizuzu engu-30 nsuku zonke. Sonke siqonda kahle lapho siqala, kodwa inselelo yangempela ifika lapho kufanele singaguquguquki ekulondolozeni esikuqalile. Ngaqala ukufunda ukudlala isiginci ngemva kokuba umfundisi engikhuthaze ukuba ngisishaye. Wasikisela ukuthi kuzokwengeza ngempela ekuculeni nasekubhaleni kwami, konke lokhu kuzongenza ngibe umculi osezingeni eliphezulu. Umgomo wami wawuwukudlala ngokupheleleyo onyakeni owodwa, futhi ngangazi ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela yokufinyelela kulowo mgomo kwakuwukuba ngingashintshi.
Isihluthulelo sokungaguquguquki ukuhlela kusengaphambili, ukubala izindleko (kuyini engizifaka kukho nokuthi yini okufanele ngizimisele ukuyidela), ukuzimisela nokuba nohlelo olukhulu lokusekela oluzokusiza endleleni. Ngokushesha, ngisho neminwe yami ebuhlungu ayikwazanga ukungivimbela ekufinyeleleni kumgomo wami. Cishe ngemva konyaka ngase ngiwufezile umgomo wami, futhi ngakwazi ukudlala isiginci sami (engasiqamba ngokuthi “U-Ella”) emshadweni.
"Usebenza ngokuzithandela ngezandla zakhe." Kunezinto ezimbili intombazane yeZaga engesabi ukuzenza: ukusebenza kanzima nokungashintshi. Uma unomgomo futhi ukholelwa kulowo mgomo, izenzo zakho zokuzikhandla ukusebenzela kuzo ziyohlale zikulethela impumelelo. Owesimame weZaga uyazi futhi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzungezwa abantu abayithandayo nabafuna ukumbona ephumelela empilweni. Ngenxa yalokhu, sekuphele unyaka manje ngingumuntu odla imifino ophumelelayo, futhi ngike ngadlala isiginci sami ezindaweni ezahlukene zomphakathi.
Khumbula njalo, Owesimame weZaga umelwe inselelo ukuthi engashintshi kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yakhe ngoba ukungaguquguquki kuyamsiza ukuthi afinyelele kwimigomo yakhe.
Sawubona NKULUNKULU, YIMI!
Ngifisa ukuphumelela empilweni futhi ngiyazi ukuthi lokho kudinga ukuzimisela nokungaguquguquki. Ngiyabonga ukuthi yonke imisebenzi emihle iqala ngawe futhi iphetha ngawe. Ngiyabonga ngokuqala lo msebenzi omkhulu wemibono kimi. Ngisize ngenze indima yami ekukhuzeni futhi ngithembe wena ukuthi uzokwenza lokho ongakwenza kuphela. EGameni likaJesu, Ameni.
PHILA NGAPHAKATHI:
Ngakho-ke, ake sibe neqiniso! Uzindela ukwenzani? Yenza umnqamulajuqu omusha. Hlukanisa umsebenzi ngenani lezinsuku onazo ngaphambi komnqamulajuqu. Cela umngani othembekile ukuthi ahlole inqubo yakho. Manje ngena emsebenzini! Impumelelo ilindile.
Intombazane yeZaga ayishintshashintshi futhi yenqaba ukwehluleka.
QAPHELA: Enye yezinselelo zami ezinkulu kwaba ukuqala okuthile ngingakuqedi. Minyaka yonke kwakuzoba “UNYAKA” wokuba ngibe sesimweni esihle futhi nginciphe, NGINGASE ngidle inyama, noma ngidlale isiginci sami imizuzu engu-30 nsuku zonke. Sonke siqonda kahle lapho siqala, kodwa inselelo yangempela ifika lapho kufanele singaguquguquki ekulondolozeni esikuqalile. Ngaqala ukufunda ukudlala isiginci ngemva kokuba umfundisi engikhuthaze ukuba ngisishaye. Wasikisela ukuthi kuzokwengeza ngempela ekuculeni nasekubhaleni kwami, konke lokhu kuzongenza ngibe umculi osezingeni eliphezulu. Umgomo wami wawuwukudlala ngokupheleleyo onyakeni owodwa, futhi ngangazi ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela yokufinyelela kulowo mgomo kwakuwukuba ngingashintshi.
Isihluthulelo sokungaguquguquki ukuhlela kusengaphambili, ukubala izindleko (kuyini engizifaka kukho nokuthi yini okufanele ngizimisele ukuyidela), ukuzimisela nokuba nohlelo olukhulu lokusekela oluzokusiza endleleni. Ngokushesha, ngisho neminwe yami ebuhlungu ayikwazanga ukungivimbela ekufinyeleleni kumgomo wami. Cishe ngemva konyaka ngase ngiwufezile umgomo wami, futhi ngakwazi ukudlala isiginci sami (engasiqamba ngokuthi “U-Ella”) emshadweni.
"Usebenza ngokuzithandela ngezandla zakhe." Kunezinto ezimbili intombazane yeZaga engesabi ukuzenza: ukusebenza kanzima nokungashintshi. Uma unomgomo futhi ukholelwa kulowo mgomo, izenzo zakho zokuzikhandla ukusebenzela kuzo ziyohlale zikulethela impumelelo. Owesimame weZaga uyazi futhi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzungezwa abantu abayithandayo nabafuna ukumbona ephumelela empilweni. Ngenxa yalokhu, sekuphele unyaka manje ngingumuntu odla imifino ophumelelayo, futhi ngike ngadlala isiginci sami ezindaweni ezahlukene zomphakathi.
Khumbula njalo, Owesimame weZaga umelwe inselelo ukuthi engashintshi kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yakhe ngoba ukungaguquguquki kuyamsiza ukuthi afinyelele kwimigomo yakhe.
Sawubona NKULUNKULU, YIMI!
Ngifisa ukuphumelela empilweni futhi ngiyazi ukuthi lokho kudinga ukuzimisela nokungaguquguquki. Ngiyabonga ukuthi yonke imisebenzi emihle iqala ngawe futhi iphetha ngawe. Ngiyabonga ngokuqala lo msebenzi omkhulu wemibono kimi. Ngisize ngenze indima yami ekukhuzeni futhi ngithembe wena ukuthi uzokwenza lokho ongakwenza kuphela. EGameni likaJesu, Ameni.
PHILA NGAPHAKATHI:
Ngakho-ke, ake sibe neqiniso! Uzindela ukwenzani? Yenza umnqamulajuqu omusha. Hlukanisa umsebenzi ngenani lezinsuku onazo ngaphambi komnqamulajuqu. Cela umngani othembekile ukuthi ahlole inqubo yakho. Manje ngena emsebenzini! Impumelelo ilindile.
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