Owesifazane weZaga: Ukuhlakanipha, Izimiso, noMangalisayoIsampula
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Uzoba umngani wezinkanyezi eziwu-5 ngaso sonke isikhathi.
QAPHELA: Zibone ngeso lengqondo ubhukha ubusuku ehhotela likanokusho. Ujabule kakhulu. Uthatha konke ubuhle njengoba umabhalane edeskini elingaphambili ekuhlola ukuthi ungenile. Awusakwazi ukulinda ukuthi ungene ekamelweni lakho wedwa, kepha lapho ufika uhlangana nesiphithiphithi. Ikamelo alibonakali lihlanzekile, indawo yokugezela inokushelela futhi ishawa libonakala sengathi lisetshenziswe yiwo wonke umuntu ehhotela. Uyadideka ngoba ihhotela lithole izincomo zesilinganiso sezinkanyezi eziwu-5, kodwa obhekene nakho inhlekelele yezinkanyezi eziwu-2!
Sivamise ukuba abangani ngendlela efanayo lapho “singena” kulokho esikholelwa ukuthi kuzoba ubungani obuphelele, bese bugcina buyiphupho elibi. Waqamba amanga ngawe. Wakukhaphela. Wakuphoxa. Masibhekane nakho, akekho kithi obe umngani ophelele, futhi okuwukuphela kobungani obunekhwalithi ongayiqinisekisa kungeyakho.
NgokukaJohane 15:15 usitshela ukuthi uJesu usibiza ngokuthi singabangani. Cabanga nje! Kaningi lapho singathembekile, singalindelekile futhi ngezinye izikhathi singathembeki Kuye, Usasibiza ngokuthi singabangani. Usibiza ngokuthi singabangani ngenxa yokwethembeka Kwakhe kithi, hhayi ngempela okwethu Kuye. Uyasithanda futhi uthando lwenza ukulungisa amaphutha abanye abantu.
“Uzokwenza okuhle, hhayi okubi zonke izinsuku zokuphila kwakhe.” Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi isaga sibhekisela kanjani ekuthembekeni kowesimame hhayi kwakhe. Kubonakala kungalungile, akunjalo? Ukuba umngani wezinkanyezi eziwu-5 akupheleli kumuntu onguye ngaphandle, kodwa ukuthi ungubani ngaphakathi. Owesimame weZaga ungumngani omuhle owazi amandla kanye nobuthakathaka babangani bakhe. Uma ebona umngani wakhe enezinselelo zokuba neqiniso, ukwethembeka noma ukwethenjwa, uyakwazi ukubekela imingcele ngokusekelwe kulokho umngani wakhe akwazi ukukusingatha ngenxa yokuthi ungumngani wezinkanyezi eziwu-5.
Sawubona NKULUNKULU, YIMI!
Akulula ukuba umngani omuhle kumuntu ongeyena umngani omuhle kuwe. Ngisize ngidwebe imingcele enempilo ebudlelwaneni. Ngifundise ukuthi nginikele kuphi ngokwengeziwe nokuthi ngihlehle nini. Ngikhumbuze ukuthi ngikhulekele umngani wami futhi ngibathande ngendlela ongithanda ngayo, ngaphandle kwemibandela. EGameni likaJesu, Ameni.
YIKHOLE NGAPHAKATHI:
Thola umngani onolaka nolukhuni. Mbuze ukuthi ungamthandazela kanjani, futhi uzibophezele ukukwenza.
Uzoba umngani wezinkanyezi eziwu-5 ngaso sonke isikhathi.
QAPHELA: Zibone ngeso lengqondo ubhukha ubusuku ehhotela likanokusho. Ujabule kakhulu. Uthatha konke ubuhle njengoba umabhalane edeskini elingaphambili ekuhlola ukuthi ungenile. Awusakwazi ukulinda ukuthi ungene ekamelweni lakho wedwa, kepha lapho ufika uhlangana nesiphithiphithi. Ikamelo alibonakali lihlanzekile, indawo yokugezela inokushelela futhi ishawa libonakala sengathi lisetshenziswe yiwo wonke umuntu ehhotela. Uyadideka ngoba ihhotela lithole izincomo zesilinganiso sezinkanyezi eziwu-5, kodwa obhekene nakho inhlekelele yezinkanyezi eziwu-2!
Sivamise ukuba abangani ngendlela efanayo lapho “singena” kulokho esikholelwa ukuthi kuzoba ubungani obuphelele, bese bugcina buyiphupho elibi. Waqamba amanga ngawe. Wakukhaphela. Wakuphoxa. Masibhekane nakho, akekho kithi obe umngani ophelele, futhi okuwukuphela kobungani obunekhwalithi ongayiqinisekisa kungeyakho.
NgokukaJohane 15:15 usitshela ukuthi uJesu usibiza ngokuthi singabangani. Cabanga nje! Kaningi lapho singathembekile, singalindelekile futhi ngezinye izikhathi singathembeki Kuye, Usasibiza ngokuthi singabangani. Usibiza ngokuthi singabangani ngenxa yokwethembeka Kwakhe kithi, hhayi ngempela okwethu Kuye. Uyasithanda futhi uthando lwenza ukulungisa amaphutha abanye abantu.
“Uzokwenza okuhle, hhayi okubi zonke izinsuku zokuphila kwakhe.” Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi isaga sibhekisela kanjani ekuthembekeni kowesimame hhayi kwakhe. Kubonakala kungalungile, akunjalo? Ukuba umngani wezinkanyezi eziwu-5 akupheleli kumuntu onguye ngaphandle, kodwa ukuthi ungubani ngaphakathi. Owesimame weZaga ungumngani omuhle owazi amandla kanye nobuthakathaka babangani bakhe. Uma ebona umngani wakhe enezinselelo zokuba neqiniso, ukwethembeka noma ukwethenjwa, uyakwazi ukubekela imingcele ngokusekelwe kulokho umngani wakhe akwazi ukukusingatha ngenxa yokuthi ungumngani wezinkanyezi eziwu-5.
Sawubona NKULUNKULU, YIMI!
Akulula ukuba umngani omuhle kumuntu ongeyena umngani omuhle kuwe. Ngisize ngidwebe imingcele enempilo ebudlelwaneni. Ngifundise ukuthi nginikele kuphi ngokwengeziwe nokuthi ngihlehle nini. Ngikhumbuze ukuthi ngikhulekele umngani wami futhi ngibathande ngendlela ongithanda ngayo, ngaphandle kwemibandela. EGameni likaJesu, Ameni.
YIKHOLE NGAPHAKATHI:
Thola umngani onolaka nolukhuni. Mbuze ukuthi ungamthandazela kanjani, futhi uzibophezele ukukwenza.
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