Loving Your Neighbor as YourselfÀpẹrẹ

Helpful perspectives when loving your neighbor is hard, #2

Loving our ‘neighbor’ often involves forgiving him when he has wronged us in some way. This wrong might be serious, as we saw two days ago. If we are to love this person nevertheless, we’ll have to forgive him over and over again.

That’s exactly what Peter found hard, and he asked Jesus how often he had to forgive his brother. In response, Jesus told this parable about a servant who was forgiven a huge debt, but refused to have patience with a fellow servant who owed him some money. The servant’s lack of mercy made the king very angry, and he was delivered to the jailers.

This parable might help us to put things in perspective. Yes, it can be very difficult to forgive somebody who has hurt or damaged us. Forgiveness is never ‘cheap’. But we too are sinful, and we too need forgiveness. Our sins against God are infinitely bigger than our neighbor’s sins against us. If we accept His forgiveness, should we not be willing to forgive our neighbor?