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“[Love] refuses to be jealous when blessing comes to someone else....” 1 Corinthians 13:4 TPT

Jealousy reveals itself when we refuse to join in and celebrate another’s good fortune, talents, or abilities. Envy and jealousy are part of the enemy’s original lie, a seedbed of comparison asking us to believe that God is withholding His goodness from us and that He is, instead, giving it to someone else. This type of thinking is a stronghold of bondage and lies.

Envy is a subtle, evil spirit that rises in opposition to the goodness that falls on others. Envy is in direct opposition to love. 

Envy and jealousy come from a scarcity mindset which, in effect, believes that the goodness of God is limited—that there’s only so much to go around. It is the belief that what someone else has or is given will subtract from what we may have or receive.

Envy is believing in a false math problem: You + your good fortune = less for me. 

Often, when we are triggered by envy and jealousy, our natural response is to diminish the success of others in order to feel better about ourselves—a desperate effort to balance the false equation in our mind. 

But the verse speaks to this by telling us, 

“Love does not brag about one's achievements nor inflate its own importance."

An inflated opinion of our own opinions or abilities will drive others away from us. Proverbs names this person a scoffer, a mocker, a know-it-all. It’s very easy for us to fall into this category because we believe that our opinions define us and make us who we are. We are for this, but against that, falling into a religious standard of rightness. Might we actually be withholding our love for others because of our opinions? 

Honoring and acknowledging another’s accomplishments, no matter who they are or how they live, does not diminish you. In fact, in the Kingdom of God, elevating another’s importance by honoring them invites more honor to you and is a demonstration of maturity in your heart. The ability to acknowledge and honor another is strong evidence that you are overcoming your limiting beliefs about God.

Love chooses to celebrate all good things! Love rejoices with those who rejoice. Loving others by honoring them becomes a wide place of freedom, believing there is more than enough goodness for us all. 

When I have been triggered by jealousy and envy, it’s a sign for me to take it to Jesus and ask Him what’s going on in my heart. He has always been faithful to reveal it.

“...And since God freely offered him up as the sacrifice for us all, he certainly won’t withhold from us anything else he has to give.” Romans 8:32 TPT

Consider reading today’s scriptures from The Passion Translation (TPT)

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