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THE WEED OF OFFENSE : AN OFFENDED FRIEND

Offense is a critical weed to address. The spirit of offense is a toxic spirit that contaminates a soul that's trying to heal, become pure, and sanctified. Raising awareness about this spirit will help us recognize its ugly face on our journey and empower us to resist it.

The spirit of offense can be challenging to shake off once we embrace it. It can cling to us with a tenacity that rivals that of a fortified city. The more we allow offense to fester within us, the harder it becomes to forgive. Arguments are often the cause of separation, and they can create a permanent divide that allows offense to take root. Once that happens, it can be difficult to restore a friendship or relationship to a healthy state.

SOUL PRAYER:

Dear Heavenly Father,

I come to you today with a humble heart, seeking your guidance and wisdom as I navigate the relationships in my life. I know that it is your will for me to love one another and to forgive each other as you have forgiven me.

Lord, I acknowledge that offense can be a powerful force in my relationships. I ask that you help me to guard my heart against the spirit of offense and to resist the temptation to take offense when I am wronged.

Give me the strength to let go of my hurt feelings and to extend forgiveness and grace to those who have offended me.

Father, I ask that you help me to be a peacemaker in my relationships, and to seek reconciliation rather than division. I pray for those who have become estranged from me due to offense or arguments. I ask that you soften their hearts and give them the desire to reconcile and restore our friendships and relationships.

Lord, I know that reconciling with an offended friend can be difficult and even feel impossible, but I know that all things are possible with you. I trust in your power to break down the walls of offense and to help me rebuild the relationships that have been damaged.

Thank you, Father, for your love and grace towards me, even when I fall short. I pray that your Holy Spirit will continue to guide me and lead me towards healthy, loving relationships with others.

In Jesus' name, I pray,

Amen

SOUL REFLECTION:

1. Have I been too quick to jump to conclusions and make judgments about someone without taking the time to hear their side of the story?
2. Do I have a tendency to hold grudges and refuse to reconcile with others, even when it's clear that forgiveness and reconciliation are necessary for healing and growth?
3. Am I open to constructive criticism and willing to learn from my mistakes, or do I get defensive and refuse to listen when someone points out my flaws or shortcomings?