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# Heal [IMAGE CONTENT] Psalm 34:17-18 “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 147:3 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Dating after a divorce as a Christian can feel a bit confusing and uncertain. You may have people in your life who support your decision, while others might not understand or agree. And as you navigate your new relationship status and consider opening your heart to love again, you’ll likely feel all sorts of emotions. Because of this, healing after a divorce before dating after a divorce is essential. It’s not only for your own good but for the benefit of the people you date. You need to make sure you’re whole, healed, and happy all by yourself before involving and inviting someone new into your life. ### Heal Emotionally Divorce is always a difficult experience, no matter the circumstances. When you said those cherished words, “for better or for worse,” you meant it. But now you have to grieve the loss of your marriage and all the hopes, dreams, and plans you had for your future. You need to heal from the pain caused by the divorce, not to forget what happened, but to forgive yourself and your ex-partner. Depending on the circumstances of the divorce, you may be experiencing feelings of betrayal, guilt, sadness, relief, or shame. All those feelings are normal, and it’s important to let yourself experience them. Stuffing your emotions and pretending you’re ok when you’re not isn’t a step toward healing. And while it may feel uncomfortable to work through the grief you’re experiencing, you’re not alone. God is close to the brokenhearted and heals the brokenhearted. He cares about you and wants to comfort you during this time. Every time a new feeling arises, bring it to God. Let Him carry the weight of the divorce for you, so you can heal and move forward with your life. ### Heal Spiritually One of the most difficult parts of healing from a divorce as a Christian is the spiritual aspect. There are many opinions and beliefs regarding separation and remarrying after a divorce. When you start to feel ashamed or unworthy, shift your focus to God’s grace, goodness, and mercy. You are still worthy of God's love, and you are still worthy of finding love with another partner.