Put Yourself in Single Circles

As a single Christian, there are probably times when you feel like you’re the only one. Like everyone else has found their forever person, and you’re going to be alone for the rest of your life! It can be really encouraging to know that there are other singles out there. It can also be a lot of fun to spend time with them. There’s nothing quite like being around other singles who are also looking for a relationship. They are the people who actually get you. And you can be open and honest about your struggles, expectations, and feelings without being judged. Don’t underestimate the power of hearing what others have to say about something you’re experiencing. Although God always uses His Word to speak to us, He often will use people we are close to as well. Hearing how someone else is experiencing the same things as you can bring a lot of peace into the situation.

Just like it says in Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, “Two are better than one!” Going through your single season with other people who are going through it too will bring so much joy, peace, and fun to this time in your life. What’s even better is that these friends can help you keep your mind on what matters the most–your relationship with God, following His will for your life, and preparing for a healthy relationship when the time comes. And who knows, maybe one of the Christian singles you meet will eventually turn into something more. (God works in mysterious ways!) Plus, it’s a great way to make friends that you can lean on once your single season comes to an end.

Friendships are important in your single season, but they should also remain a priority once you start dating again. It’s essential to keep your friends close. Whether you’ve experienced it with one of your friends or you’ve done it yourself, ditching friends once you’re in a relationship happens. But it doesn’t have to be that way. When you focus on building amazing friendships during your single season, those people can be the support you need in your dating season too. They become your shoulder to lean on, your social media stalking BFFs that let you know whether or not the person is good enough for you. Those people are essential when you’re dating, but forming those meaningful relationships starts now, in your single season.

Practice Pursuing Peace: Take a moment to pray and ask God to reveal friendships to pursue during your single season. Write down the names of three people to focus on building friendships with. Or, write down three places you can go this week to meet new friends.