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Day 3: Get Good at Forgiveness

Forgiveness is vital if you want your friendships to go the distance. In Ephesians 4:32, we're reminded, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." This means that if you want your friendships to last, you need to be good at forgiving because no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, and that's okay. What's important is how we handle those mistakes.

Imagine your friend says something that hurts your feelings. It can be tough to let go of the hurt, but holding onto it only makes things worse. Forgiveness means letting go of pride and choosing to move forward. It might require a deep breath and a quiet prayer for strength, but it's worth it. When you forgive, you open the door to healing and new beginnings.

But forgiveness isn't always easy. It also means saying sorry when you've messed up. Admitting you're wrong can feel uncomfortable, but it's a brave step toward making things right. Letting go of pride to apologize shows maturity and respect for your friendship.

Finding the balance between forgiving like Jesus and protecting yourself from getting hurt again is important, too. Setting boundaries is a way of saying, "I value our friendship, and I want it to be healthy." It’s okay to let someone know if their actions hurt you, and it’s okay to expect respect in return.

This also works in romantic relationships! Forgiveness helps you and your partner navigate the ups and downs with grace. It means recognizing that both of you are human and will make mistakes. By practicing forgiveness, you create a space where love can grow free from resentment and grudges. Just like in friendships, saying sorry and forgiving brings you closer, building a strong foundation of trust and understanding. By embracing forgiveness, both friendships and romantic relationships become a place of kindness and mutual growth.