Wives Who Win for Christ: Influencing Your Unsaved Husband Through Discipleship by Dr. Treal RavenelSample

Day 4: Connect with Wise and Healthy Christian Wives

Proverbs 27:17 "Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another”

Connection with other believers is vital for spiritual growth and encouragement. Proverbs 27:17 reminds us that "Iron sharpens iron." By surrounding yourself with wise Christian wives, you will find support, practical advice, and inspiration that can enhance your journey of discipleship.

You may feel isolated in your faith journey, especially if your husband isn’t on the same path. However, finding a supportive community can provide not only encouragement but also accountability. When you share your experiences and learn from others, you grow in your understanding and practice of faith.

As you foster these relationships, it’s essential to resist any temptation to cultivate pride or a self-righteous attitude regarding your husband’s spiritual state. Approach your influence with humility, understanding that your role is to show love and grace rather than judgment.

Application: Imagine joining a local women’s group at your church focused on prayer and support. Each week, you gather with other wives, sharing your journeys and learning from one another. You find encouragement in their stories and wisdom in their experiences.

In these gatherings, you witness the importance of humility and grace. As you share your experiences, remain mindful not to allow any contempt or judgment toward your husband’s spiritual journey to seep into your conversations. Instead, model the characteristics of Jesus—showing patience and understanding. This approach not only uplifts you but also encourages your husband when you return home with renewed compassion and insight.

One day, you invite your husband to a couple’s event hosted by the group. After attending, he observes the warmth and love among couples. You share your thoughts from the meeting, discussing how the support from other women strengthens your faith and helps you navigate the challenges of marriage. Your husband sees how these connections contribute to your spiritual growth, igniting his curiosity and prompting deeper conversations about faith.

Devotional Reflection:

Consider your current support system. Are you connected with other Christian wives? How can these relationships strengthen your faith and provide encouragement in your marriage?

Practical Steps:

1. Seek out a local or online group of Christian wives for fellowship and support.

2. Share insights and experiences with your husband, inviting him into discussions about faith and community.

3. Encourage your husband to participate in events or service projects with your group, allowing him to see the benefits of community.

Closing Prayer:

"Father, thank You for the community of believers. Help me to build relationships that encourage my faith and draw my husband closer to You. Amen."