Wives Who Win for Christ: Influencing Your Unsaved Husband Through Discipleship by Dr. Treal RavenelSample

There’s a profound truth in the call to discipleship that often goes unrecognized: it starts at home. In Matthew 28:19, Jesus commands us to make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. This command is not just aimed at reaching distant lands; it begins with those we love most, especially our unsaved husbands.

As Christian women, we are uniquely positioned to influence the lives of our husbands, family members, and friends who may not yet know Jesus or have not fully committed to Him. The impact we can make in their lives through active discipleship is profound. When we prioritize our relationship with God and embody His love, we create a ripple effect that can transform our homes and, ultimately, the world around us.

Over the next six days, you will be guided through six essential steps on how to influence your unsaved husband through discipleship. Each day will focus on a specific aspect of this journey, encouraging you to deepen your faith and share it authentically with your husband. Grab your coffee or tea, snuggle under your favorite blanket, and let’s dive into this transformative experience together!

Day 1: Make Time with God a Priority!

In our busy lives filled with work, family responsibilities, and social obligations, making time for God can often feel like a luxury we cannot afford. However, prioritizing your relationship with Him is essential for both personal spiritual growth and effective discipleship. When you dedicate time to God, you not only nourish your own faith but also set an example for your husband. This act of devotion creates an atmosphere of peace and spiritual vitality in your home.

Application:

Consider your morning routine: the chaos of getting children ready, preparing breakfast, and managing a busy day ahead. It’s easy to let your time with God slip away in the hustle. One morning, feeling particularly overwhelmed, you decide to wake up 30 minutes earlier to spend time with God. You settle into your favorite chair with your Bible and a warm cup of coffee, seeking His peace and guidance.

As you read, you come across a passage that resonates deeply with your current struggles, filling you with a sense of reassurance and clarity. You feel God's presence reminding you of His promises. Enthusiastically, you share this insight with your husband during breakfast. "I read something today that reminded me how important it is to draw near to God," you say, your eyes lighting up.

By prioritizing this time with God, you model the importance of faith in your daily life. Your husband notices the calmness in your demeanor and the joy in your voice. This small act not only nourishes your spirit but also intrigues him, prompting questions about your faith that you can gently address. Your commitment to God becomes a beacon of hope in your home.

Devotional Reflection:

Reflect on your current relationship with God. Are you making time for Him amidst your daily responsibilities? How might prioritizing your time with God impact your marriage and your husband’s view of faith?

Practical Steps:

1. Set aside specific times each day for prayer and Bible reading—early mornings or quiet evenings can work wonders.

2. Create a peaceful space in your home for this time, free from distractions.

3. Share insights from your time with God during meals or quiet moments, inviting your husband into your spiritual journey.

Closing Prayer:

"Lord, help me to prioritize my time with You. May my commitment to seeking You inspire my husband to explore his own faith. Amen."