Imibuzo Engu-7 Ehlupha Imiqondo Yabantu abaningiIsampula

Uma uthanda ukubuka ama-Olympics njengami, mhlawumbe usubonile ukuthi kwenzekani ekupheleni kwemijaho eminingi, ikakhulukazi imicimbi yethrekhi nenkundla. Njengoba abaqhudelanayo sebezofika entanjeni, bajwayele ukubheka emahlombe abo ukuze babone ukuthi baqhuba kanjani uma kuqhathaniswa nenkundla yonke.

Lokhu kuyasiza ngokusobala uma uzama ukunqoba umjaho. Kodwa kuyiphutha elikhungathekisayo ukwenza into efanayo ekuphileni kwakho kwansuku zonke—bheka kwesokunxele sakho nakwesokudla ukuze ubone ukuthi unamathela kanjani kulabo abaseduze nawe.

Njengoba amavesi anamuhla kumShumayeli esikhumbuza, ukuphila kwenzeka ngezinkathi zonyaka. Futhi ukuqhathanisa impilo yakho noma izinto ozifezile nomunye umuntu—ikakhulukazi umuntu okungenzeka ukuthi usenkathini yempilo ehlukile kunawe—kungakukhohlisa ukuba uzizwe sengathi usalela emuva, “ukujaha umoya.”

Ngakho umbuzo wethu wanamuhla uthi: Ngikuphi?

Nazi izinkathi ezinhlanu zokuphila komuntu. Ukukhomba ukuthi iyiphi isizini okuyo njengamanje kungakhulula ukukhathazeka kokuba nokuningi noma ukwenza okungaphezu kwalokho okudingwa yisizini yakho.

• Isisekelo (iminyaka engu-0–20): Ukuthonywa abazali, ontanga, nezimo ezibalulekile
• Ukuzilungiselela (20-30): Ukuqoqa imfundo nolwazi, ukwenza ukukhetha kokuqala othandweni nendlela yokuphila
• Ukuqala (30–40): Ukufunda amandla akho nobuthakathaka bakho njengoba wandisa isibopho sakho emsebenzini nasekhaya
• Ukubusa (40–60): Ukuzikhandla ekufezeni isabelo sikaNkulunkulu kuwe
• Ukuhlanganisa (60+): Ukunciphisa phakathi kwefa lakho, ukuxazulula ubudlelwano obulimele

ZAMA LOKHU NAMUHLA

Khomba ukuthi iyiphi isizini eyodwa kweziyisihlanu okuzo manje. Bese ubhala abantu ababili noma abathathu ojwayele ukuziqhathanisa nabo (ukusikisela: cabanga umsebenzi, umndeni, nokuzijabulisa). Ingabe labo bantu bakwisizini efanayo neyakho?