Ukuhlanzeka Okujulile: Ukuqeda Ihlazo, Imithelela Enobuthi, kanye NokungathetheleliIsampula

Deep Clean: Getting Rid of Shame, Toxic Influences, and Unforgiveness

USUKU 5 KWEZINGU- 7

Ukungathetheleli Kokuhlanza Okujulile

Inqubo yokuhlanza okujulile yinde futhi ibuhlungu. Akufanele nje uqoqe imfuhlumfuhlu kodwa futhi kufanele ubhekane nokungcola okufihliwe okuqoqa emabhodini aphansi, emakhoneni, nasezindaweni ongavamile ukubheka kuzo. Ngenqubo, iqala ukubukeka futhi izwakale imbi kakhulu kunalokho obukuqalile, futhi ulingeka ukuba uhambe uyeke.

Inqubo yokuhlanza ngokujulile imiphefumulo yethu isebenza ngendlela efanayo. Kubuhlungu ukuthulula imithwalo yemizwa impilo yonke. Kodwa uma siqhubeka, siyothola ukuphulukiswa.

Enye yezinto okunzima ukuzisusa ukungathetheleli. Silingeka ukuba sicabange ukuthi ukungathetheleli kusinika amandla, kuyilapho empeleni, kusigcina siyizisulu.

Kodwa silokhu sibambelele ekungathetheleli kwethu, siqiniseka ukuthi ukwenza kanjalo kulungile.

Kodwa njengabalandeli bakaJesu, asigxili kulokho okulungile. Sigxila ekuthembekeni. Futhi

enye yezinto ezithembeke kakhulu esingayenza ukuthethelela, ikakhulukazi uma kungafanele.

Bheka nje ukuthi imiBhalo ichaza kanjani ukuthethelela kulezi ziqephu ezimbili:

Susani konke okubabayo, nentukuthelo, nentukuthelo, nokukhuluma, nokuhlambalaza, kanye nayo yonke inhlobo yobubi. Yibani nomusa omunye komunye, nihawukelane, nithethelelane, njengalokho uNkulunkulu wanithethelela ngoKristu. KWABASE-EFESU 4:31-32 NIV
Kepha manje lahlani kini zonke izinto ezinjengalezi: intukuthelo, nokufutheka, nenzondo, nokuhlambalaza, nokukhuluma okubi ezindebeni zenu; ... Ngakho-ke, njengabakhethiweyo bakaNkulunkulu, abangcwele nabathandekayo, gqokani ububele, umusa, ukuthobeka, ubumnene nokubekezela. Bekezelanani omunye nomunye futhi … nithethelelane njengalokho iNkosi yanithethelela. Kolose 3:8, 12-13 NIV

Kufanele sihlanze ngokujulile ukufutheka kwethu, ukucasuka, nentukuthelo, futhi esikhundleni sako sifake ububele, umusa, nokuzithoba. Kungani? Ngoba sithethelelwe okuningi.

Akulula ukuxolela. Kodwa uma silandela uJesu, wona lowoMoya owavusa uKristu kwabafileyo uhlala kithi. Futhi uMoya Wakhe unamandla ngokwanele ukusisiza ukuba sithethelele labo abasizwise ubuhlungu, ngisho nangezindlela ezimbi kakhulu.

Ngakho-ke, uma uzama ukuthethelela, cabanga ngalo mbuzo: Ingabe ufuna ukulunga, noma ufuna ukuphiliswa?

Ungakhetha ukuqhubeka ubambelele ekulimazeni, uqinisekile ukuthi ukugcina amaphuzu kukugcina uphambili. Noma ungakhetha ukuthethelela noma kunjalo, wazi ukuthi awufani neze noYihlo kunalapho Uthethelela enye yezingane Zakhe.

Lolu hlobo lomsebenzi ojulile ludinga ukuthobeka, ukwethembeka, nozwelo kukho kokubili wena kanye nomunye umuntu. Futhi nakuba ukuthethelela kungesona isixazululo esiwumlingo esizolungisa zonke izinkinga zakho, kodwa kuyakusiza ukuba ugxilise amehlo akho kuYihlo, okuqondisayo, okusizayo, futhi okujabulelayo lapho uqhubeka.

Thandaza: Nkulunkulu, ngiyabonga ngokuthethelela kwakho ngoJesu. Ngikuthola kunzima ukuthethelela _______ nge- ________. Kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi ukuthethelela kusho inkululeko, futhi ngifuna ukukhululeka. Ngisize nginikele ngokuphelele ubuhlungu bami Kuwe, futhi ungisize ngithole umusa Wakho, induduzo, nozwelo. Ngifuna ukukhetha ukuthethelela abanye namuhla nezinsuku zonke. Ngisize ngikhulule amagqubu futhi ngikhethe umusa, ngithembele Kuwe kuyo yonke inqubo. Ngegama likaJesu, amen.

Usuku 4Usuku 6

Mayelana naloluHlelo

Deep Clean: Getting Rid of Shame, Toxic Influences, and Unforgiveness

Kuthiwani uma kungadingeki silinde kuze kube yilapho sesifikile lapho sikhuluma khona lokho okuphukile ezimpilweni zethu? Njengoba nje sitshala imali ekuhlanzeni amakhaya ethu, yisikhathi sokumema uMoya oNgcwele ukuthi ahlanze izinhliziyo zethu. Kulolu Hlelo LweBhayibheli Lwezinsuku Ezingu-7, sizothola ukuthi singawuyeka kanjani umthwalo ongokomzwelo osibuyisela emuva futhi osindayo.

More

Sithanda ukubonga i Life.Church ngokusihlinzeka ngalolu Hlelo. Ngemininingwane eminingi, sicela uvakashele: https://www.life.church/