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Ukuhlanza Okujulile Ubudlelwano Bobuthi
Abaningi bethu badonsa kanzima ekuthandeni abanye kuyilapho sizibekela imingcele. Kodwa kuthiwani uma bobabili bengaxabene? Kuthiwani uma ukubeka imingcele kungase kube into enothando kakhulu ongayenza?
Into ukuthi, ubungane bethu bubaluleke kakhulu. Umfundisi uCraig Groeschel uvame ukuthi, “Ngibonise abangani bakho, futhi ngizokukhombisa ikusasa lakho.”
Izaga 13:20 ziyasikhumbuza:
Hamba nabahlakaniphileyo uhlakaniphe, ngokuba umngane weziwula uyalimala.
Uma ikusasa lakho lithonywa abangani bakho osondelene nabo, uyathanda indlela impilo yakho ebheke ngakhona?
Umbuzo omkhulu, kodwa ubalulekile ukuthi uzibuze njalo. Kulungile-futhi kuyakhuthazwa-ukukhawulela ubudlelwano obunobuthi. Lokho akusho ukuthi asibathandi abanye noma asikwazi ukuba nabangane abangewona amaKristu.
Kusho ukuthi sibeka imingcele ebudlelwaneni bethu nokuthi abangani bethu abakhulu yilabo abasikhuthazayo othandweni, emisebenzini emihle, nasenkolweni kaNkulunkulu.
UJesu wasibekela isibonelo salokhu enkonzweni yakhe emhlabeni. KuMathewu 12, uhlezi nabafundi Bakhe, futhi abanye abaFarisi baqala ukungabaza isimo Sakhe, izisusa Zakhe, nabangane Bakhe. UJesu ubabuza uchungechunge lwemibuzo ukuze azame ukubasiza babone okulungile.
Khona-ke, uphulukisa othile ngesabatha, futhi abaFarisi bayacikidwa ngakho. Eqinisweni, ivesi 14 lisitshela ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi, benza itulo lokumbulala.
Ithini impendulo kaJesu?
Akahlali ukuze abaqinisekise ukuthi banephutha. Akaqhubeki ebacela ukuthi babone isizathu. Nakhu akwenzayo:
UJesu ekwazi lokho wamuka kuleyo ndawo; Isixuku esikhulu samlandela, futhi welapha bonke abagulayo. Mathewu 12:15 NIV
UJesu wahamba. Wabeka umngcele, futhi Wanamathela kuwo. Wayazi ukuthi ukuhlala kwakhe kwakuzothukuthelisa abaFarisi futhi kumvimbele ukuba afeze injongo yaKhe. Ngakho uqhubeka nabafundi Bakhe futhi uqhubeka ephulukisa abantu.
Singalandela isibonelo Sakhe. Sichitha amandla sizama ukuthanda abanye, ukukhathalela abanye, nokutshela abanye ngoJesu. Kodwa lapho lawo mandla ehlangana nezinhliziyo ezivaliwe kanye nobutha obuvulekile, siyahamba futhi siqhubeke.
Siqhubeka sabelane ngothando lukaNkulunkulu. Siyaqhubeka nokwenza umsebenzi kaNkulunkulu. Siyaqhubeka nokwenza okuhle.
Kulungile ukukhawulela ubudlelwano obukukhawulela. Nakuba sinenselelo yokuthanda izitha zethu, sithandazele labo abasishushisayo, futhi senze elinye imayela ngenxa yabanye, siyakhuthazwa futhi ukuba singaphonsi amaparele ethu ezingulubeni—okusho ukuthi ngeke sisebenzise wonke amandla ethu kulezo. ongeke amukele uthando lwethu kwasekuqaleni.
Ngakho-ke, namuhla, cabangela noma yibuphi ubudlelwano ongase ubudinge ukuze ujule. Khona-ke, chitha isikhathi uthandazela ukuthi ungabeka kanjani imingcele yothando.
Thandaza: Nkulunkulu, ngiyabonga ngeqiniso lakho. Ngibonise noma yibuphi ubudlelwano empilweni yami lapho ngidinga khona ukubeka imingcele, futhi unginike ukuhlakanipha kokwazi ukuthi iyini leyo mingcele kanye nesibindi sokunamathela kuyo. Ngisize ngibe umngane ongcono walabo abasembuthanweni wami, futhi ungibonise ukuthi ibuphi ubudlelwano engingafaka kubo amandla ami. Egameni likaJesu, amen.
Mayelana naloluHlelo
Kuthiwani uma kungadingeki silinde kuze kube yilapho sesifikile lapho sikhuluma khona lokho okuphukile ezimpilweni zethu? Njengoba nje sitshala imali ekuhlanzeni amakhaya ethu, yisikhathi sokumema uMoya oNgcwele ukuthi ahlanze izinhliziyo zethu. Kulolu Hlelo LweBhayibheli Lwezinsuku Ezingu-7, sizothola ukuthi singawuyeka kanjani umthwalo ongokomzwelo osibuyisela emuva futhi osindayo.
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