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Forgiving What You Can’t Forget: A 5-Day Challenge

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Mayelana Nolaka Lwami 

AMAVESI:Kwabase-Efesu 4:26-27; Genesise 4:1-8

Ngisho noma silungisa izinhliziyo zethu kusenesikhathi njengoba sixoxile izolo, kuzoba nezikhathi lapho siyofika ekupheleni kosuku futhi singakwazi ukunyakazisa indlela esilimele ngayo. 

Esikhathini esedlule, yilapho ngangiphendukela khona futhi, ngeshwa, ngasebenzise kabi eyabase-Efesu 4:26-27. Kwaba lula ukukhipha leyo ndima lapho othile efuna ukulala futhi ngangisafuna ukukhuluma nganoma yini ebangela ukungqubuzana.

“Hhayi cha, awukwazi ukuthi isikhathi sokuvala okwamanje. Kumele siqhubeke sikhuluma ngoba iBhayibheli lisho ngokucacile, ‘ilanga malingashoni nisathukuthele.’”

Kodwa ngiphawule muva nje amagama amathathu okuqala athi, “ entukuthelweni yakho. Ngakho-ke, akukhona ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga zobudlelwane ngaphambi kuka-9:00 p.m. Kukhulunywa ngolaka lwami, hhayi ukukhungatheka kwethu.

Kufana nombhali wencwadi yabase-Efesu, uPawulu, ethi “Kufanele ubhekane nale ntukuthelo. Ungalali embhedeni wakho futhi uvumele ukuthi kudle ingqondo yakho. Uma kwenzeka, izophuma emlonyeni wakho futhi iveze ukuthi ubani noma yini ephethe wena.”

Lapho ngibheka okokuqala ngqa “intukuthelo” okukhulunywa ngayo eBhayibhelini, ngazithola ngikuGenesise 4:2-8 lapho sihlangana khona nokungqubuzana kobudlelwane bokuqala emBhalweni endabeni kaKayini no-Abela.

Sengineminyaka ngiyazi indaba yalabo bafo ababili, kodwa ngigeje imininingwane ebaluleke ngempela. Phakathi nokuthukuthela kukaKhayini ngokuthi uNkulunkulu engawamukeli umnikelo wakhe futhi abulale umfowabo, uJehova weza wakhuluma naye. INkosi, uqobo lwaYo, yathi kuKayini, “Uthukuthelelani na? Kungani ubuso bakho bunyukubele? Uma wenza okulungile, ngeke wamukelwe? Kepha uma ungenzi kahle, isono sihlezi ngasemnyango wakho; sifisa ukuba nawe, kepha uyakubusa phezu kwaso.” (Genesise 4:6-7)

Futhi ngokuzumayo akuyona indaba engakanani ngoKhayini no-Abela; UNkulunkulu ukhuluma nami. Ungibonisa ukuthi engikuvumelayo kudle ingqondo yami, kuphumela emlonyeni wami, kuveze umthombo wangempela walokho okushayela izinqumo zami.

Lapha kulapho sibona khona lokhu endabeni kaKhayini no-Abela:

  1. Ingqondo: UKhayini wenqaba ukuzithoba futhi wavumela le ntukuthelo ukuba ikhule ngaphakathi kwakhe
  2. Umlomo: UKhayini akazange avume ukuvumela ukuthethelelwa kuphume emlonyeni wakhe.
  3. Okwakumbusa: Isono esasihlezi emnyango wakhe sambusa kakhulu, waze wabulala umfowabo. Wanikeza imizwa yakhe ilungelo lokunquma izenzo zakhe, ngisho nangemva kokuba uNkulunkulu efikile futhi wakhuluma naye.

Yeka isikhumbuzo esinamandla sokungavumeli intukuthelo nokukhungatheka kugcwale emicabangweni yami.

Kunzima uma ubuhlungu bubusha noma ukukhungatheka kuqhubeka. Kodwa ingabe uNkulunkulu akanawo yini umusa kangangokuthi Usinika la mavesi kwabase-Efesu futhi ahlobanise lesi sifundo kokuthile esikuthola ukukubona njalo ebusuku? Njengoba ilanga lishona, singakhumbula ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuma futhi sivumele uNkulunkulu athambekele kunoma yikuphi ukusabela okunamandla noma okungase kube yingozi ekulimazeni okungase kusidle.

Singakhuleka sithi, “Baba ngidinga intethelelo yakho ukuthi igeleze kimi futhi ngami manje ukuze uMoya wakho usebenze kimi futhi ushanele inhliziyo yami ihlanzeke.” Lokhu akwenzi kube lula noma kuphike ukulimala kwethu; kukubeka ezandleni zikaNkulunkulu ukuze asisize sikucubungule kangcono.

PHENDULA: 

Nakuba abantu abaningi bengasoze bahamba ngendlela uKhayini enza ngayo, kungaba yimiphi eminye yemiphumela edabukisayo yokwenqaba ukuvumela uNkulunkulu ukuba abhekane nemizwa yethu yentukuthelo nokungathetheleli? Yiziphi ezinye zezindlela ezinempilo ongakwazi ukucubungula imizwa enamandla evukayo lapho ulimele?

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