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Forgiving What You Can’t Forget: A 5-Day Challenge

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Lapho Okungaguquleki Kuzwakala Kungaxoleleki

AMAVESI: KwabaseRoma 12:19–21, 1 KaPetru 5:7, Kwabase-Efesu 6:11-12

Okungaguquki kungazwakala kungenakuthethelelwa.

Uma umuntu ethatha into engasoze yabuya. Lapho umphumela ubonakala ungowokugcina awukwazi ukuthola izizathu zokuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani. Uma bekulimaze kakhulu uyesaba ukuthi ngeke uphinde uzizwe ujwayelekile.

Ngosizi oludla kakhulu kuzo zonke lezi zimo ezibuhlungu, kuyaxaka ngokuphelele ukucabanga ukuthi ukuthethelela kufanele kusebenze lapha. Ukuthethelela kungafeza ini?

Ngiyawuqonda lo mbuzo. Ngike ngalwa nakho mina. Futhi nakuba ngizoba ngowokuqala emgqeni ukuphakamisa isandla sami futhi ngivume ukuthethelelwa kuyisinyathelo esinzima ukusithatha, futhi kuyisinyathelo kuphela esiholela kunoma yini enhle. Konke okunye ukukhetha-okuhlanganisa ukukhetha ukungenzi lutho futhi uhlale lapho sikhona-kwengeza ubuhlungu obuningi phezu kokulimala. Nanka amaqiniso ambalwa ebengilokhu ngifunda ukubambelela kuwo enhliziyweni yami lapho ngizabalaza ukunyathela ekuxoleleni.

1. Ukuthethelela kuyanelisa kunokuphindisela. (KwabaseRoma 12:19-21)

Impindiselo iwukhokha kabili ngokulimaza omunye umuntu ngakwenze kuwe. Ungase ucabange ukuthi kuzokwenza uzizwe ungcono esikhathini esifushane, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuyohlale kukubiza kakhulu ngokomzwelo nangokomoya kunalokho obungafuna ukukukhokha. Okuwukuphela kwento ukuziphindiselela kwakho okuzoyenza ukufaka ububi bakho phezu kokwabo.

Ukuthethelela akuvumeli omunye umuntu ukuthi adedeleke. Empeleni kubabeka ezandleni zikaNkulunkulu. Futhi-ke, njengoba uhamba ngenqubo yokuthethelela, ithambise inhliziyo yakho. Ukuthula okuvela entethelweni kwanelisa ngaphezu kokuziphindiselela.

2. UNkulunkulu wethu akayena uNkulunkulu ongenzi lutho. (1 KaPetru 5:7)

Ngike ngabamba iqhaza ekuphenduleni imibuzo kwenye iseshini lapho omunye wezethamelu ebuza,uNkulunkulu uhlala kanjani engenzi lutho?' Ubuhlungu embuzweni wakhe babujulile. Nkosi, ngiyaye ngiqonde ukuthi kunjani lokho. Lapho uhlupheka kakhulu kangangokuthi ukuphefumula ngakunye kubukeka kukhathaza, kulula ukuqala ucabange ukuthi uNkulunkulu akenzi lutho.

Kodwa asimkhonzi uNkulunkulu ongenzi lutho. Uhlala esebenza. Kungase kube isimangaliso esisebenza kancane. Kungase kubonakale kuhlukile kunalokho esikulindele. Kodwa uNkulunkulu uyasithanda, futhi kukhona akwenzayo ngaso sonke isikhathi. 

3. Isitha yisikhohlakali sangempela. (Kwabase-Efesu 6:11–12)

Yebo, abantu banakho ukukhetha ukona kithi noma cha. Futhi ngokuqinisekile, lapho silinyazwa, umuntu osilimazayo kungenzeka ukuthi ngokuzithandela udlale icebo lesitha. Kodwa kuyangisiza ukukhumbula ukuthi lo muntu akasona isitha sami sangempela. UDeveli ungokoqobo futhi uhlasela zonke izinto ezinhle. Uyalizonda igama elithi “ndawonye.” Futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza ngenhloso enkulu ngokumelene nanoma yini eletha udumo nenkazimulo kuNkulunkulu.

O, mngani, ubuhlungu benhliziyo obuthwele bukhulu kakhulu. Futhi isifiso sakho sokuhlehlisa okunye osekwenziwe siqondakala kakhulu. Kulungile ukuthwala kokubili isifiso sokufuna izinto zishintshe kanye nokwamukela ukuthi kulolu hlangothi lwaphakade ngeke zishintshe. Ungakuthwala kokubili. Ungakuhlonipha kokubili.

Ukwengeza iqiniso ekuboneni kwethu kwenza nokungaguquki, kuthethelelwe. Akukho kulokhu okulula. Lawa akuwona amaqiniso ongamane uwafunde, kodwa uhlale nawo. Futhi sihlale phakathi. Size sibe nesibindi sokuhamba kuwo. Phila ngaphandle. Futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nangosuku olulodwa sikumemezele njengeqiniso esinqume ukuba nalo.

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