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Why Is It So Hard to Forgive?

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Umkweleti Ongaxoleli 

Esinye sezibonelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthethelela eBhayibhelini yilapho uJesu ekhuluma ngenkosi eyayifuna ukukhokha izikweletu zayo. Enye indoda yayikweleta inkosi imali eningi futhi yayingakwazi ukuyibuyisela, ngakho yawa ngobuso yacela umusa. Inkosi yamhawukela futhi ngesihe yasithethelela leso sikweletu. 

Ngemva kokufunda lokho, singacabanga ukuthi indoda exolelwe izogcwala ukubonga, akunjalo? Imali ayexolelwe yayiyisikweletu ayengeke akwazi ukusikhokha. Futhi hhayi lokho kuphela, umndeni wakhe awuzange ulinyazwe. Ngokudabukisayo, sibona evesini elilandelayo ukuthi akazange abonise umusa ofanayo endodeni eyayimkweleta ingxenye encane yalokho eyayikukweleta inkosi. Waze wambopha lomlisa wagqunywa ejele ukuze akhokhe isikweletu.

Kube khona okushintshile enhliziyweni yale ndoda kusukela ngesikhathi iguqe ngamadolo encenga inkosi ukuthi imhawukele ngesikweleti sayo yaze yasukuma yabona indoda eyayimkweleta imali encane kakhulu. Bekuyini?

Enye yezingxenye ezinkulu zokuthethelela ukusebenzisa uzwelo. Lapho sibonisa uzwelo komunye, sizibeka esimweni sabo futhi sibonisa ububele nokuqonda. Indoda eyathethelelwa isikweletu esikhulu senkosi ayizange ikhethe ukubonisa uzwelo endodeni eyayimkweleta okuncane kakhulu. 

Uma sonke sithembekile, cishe sizibona kule ndaba. Kukangaki sikhetha ukungamthetheleli umuntu ngento asenze yona ukuze asizwise ubuhlungu kodwa sithole ukuthethelelwa uNkulunkulu asinika kona ngenjabulo? Sonke sonile. Ngokujulile. Futhi sonke isono sethu sokugcina siyasilela esimisweni sikaNkulunkulu esiphelele. 

Ngokuvamile, sibheka isono sethu ngendlela ehlukile. Singase sibheke izono zethu njengezincane uma ziqhathaniswa nezinye, kodwa zonke izono ziphambene nezindlela zikaNkulunkulu. Umehluko kungaba? Ezinye izono zinemiphumela emikhulu—ezinye zingase zibe zincane, kuyilapho ezinye zingaguqula ukuphila. 

Asisoze sazi indaba egcwele noma isizinda sempilo yomuntu. Asiqondi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi yikuphi okuyisipiliyoni esivimbe izimpilo zabo. Kodwa, ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yokudlulisa ukuthethelela ukukhetha umbono okungewona owethu nje kuphela. Ukubonisa uzwelo kudinga umsebenzi othile kithi. Ngokuvamile, akuyona into engokwemvelo kithi, kodwa kungaba yisona sihluthulelo sokuhamba ngokukhululeka ngokuthethelela abanye.

Ukhona umuntu omgodlela intethelelo? Umuntu isono sakhe kuwe sasingesibi ngendlela ozizwa ngayo? Ingabe isijeziso sakho sokugodla intethelelo asifanele “ubugebengu” babo bangempela? Cela uNkulunkulu akubonise ukuthi ubani okufanele umthethelele futhi akuthethelele.

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Why Is It So Hard to Forgive?

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