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Kungani Kunzima Ukuthethelela?Isampula

Why Is It So Hard to Forgive?

USUKU 1 KWEZINGU- 5

Kuyini ukuthethelela, futhi kungani kunzima?



Uma sizalwa, sinokuningi okumele sikufunde. Kumele sifunde ukukhuluma, ukuhamba, nokubhala, phakathi kwezinye izinto eziningi. Kodwa akekho okufanele asifundise ukwenza okungalungile. Asikho isigaba okufanele sisithathe ukuze sisikhombise ukuthi singaba nobugovu kanjani, silimaze abanye, noma sicekele phansi ubudlelwane. Siyazi ukuthi singemlalele kanjani uNkulunkulu futhi sone kuYe nabanye kusukela ngesikhathi sizalwa. 



Lokho kusho ukuthi ngamunye wethu udinga intethelelo uNkulunkulu asinika yona. Izindaba ezimangalisayo ukuthi uNkulunkulu unikeza indlela yokuba zonke izono zethu—ezedlule, ezamanje, nezizayo—zilahlwe kude nathi. Okufanele sikwenze ukuthi sithi yebo emseni osindisayo owanikelwa ngokufa kukaJesu esiphambanweni. Uthando lukaNkulunkulu ngathi ludlulele, futhi uyathanda ukudlulisa uthando lwakhe phezu kwethu. Enye indlela akwenza ngayo ukusithethelela. Ilula ngendlela emangalisayo, kodwa akulula ukuyibamba ngaso sonke isikhathi. 



Pho, kuyini ukuthethelela?

Kuwukukhetha.

Kuwukhipha imizwa yokucasuka.

Kuhoxisa isifiso sethu sokuziphindiselela. 



Kungani kunzima kangaka ukuxolela?

Sikuzwela sengathi akunxephezeli ubuhlungu bethu.

Asikwazi ukumisa ubuhlungu, obuvele buhlasele imicabango yethu.

Sicabanga ukuthi izono zabanye abantu zimbi kunezethu.



Kwenzekani uma sithethelelwe?

Sithola isipho esingasifanele.

Sithola ukunikeza lesi sipho komunye.

Siqala phansi. 



Kwenzekani uma sithethelela abanye? 



Siyavikelwa enhliziyweni ebuhlungu.

Sinikezwa ukuthula kwengqondo. 

Silalela uNkulunkulu.



Into yokugcina okumele uyazi mayelana nokuthethelela kuyilokhookungeyikho. Uma othile esilimaza, ukumthethelela akusho ukuthi ngeke aziphendulele futhi akusho ukuthi asikunaki akwenzile. Akusho ukuthi senza sengathi ukulimala akuzange kwenzeke, ukuthi siyakuvuna abakwenzile, noma sicabanga ukuthi singakukhohlwa ngempela. Ukuthethelela kusho ukuthi siyakuyeka, siqhubekele phambili, futhi asikuvumeli ukuthi kulawule izimpilo zethu. 



Uma sivumela ukungathetheleli ukuthi kugxile ezinhliziyweni zethu futhi kukhule kube umkhiqizo womunyu, asisoze saba nenkululeko ngokugcwele ezinhliziyweni zethu. Ukuze sikhule futhi sivuthwe okholweni lwethu, sidinga ukuthethelela abanye.



Ezinsukwini ezine ezilandelayo zalolu Hlelo, sizothola ithemba neqiniso ezindabeni zebhayibheli ezahlukene mayelana nokuthethelela okuzosisiza ukuthi sizamukele thina futhi sikunikeze abanye.


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